Equal Opportunity Luster

When hanging out with some college friends recently, one friend kept joking about getting a male escort that was big, black and bald. I'd say she has a type. She's even married to a guy that pretty much fits that description.

Another friend seemed to really only be attracted to white guys - at least that's who she flirted with the most while at the night club.

Me? Well, that night I was really into Indian men.

And that's when it hit me. I don't have a type.

When I was explaining this to Jasper, I said, "You know, I'm an equal opportunity..." 

I couldn't think of the perfect word when Jasper offered luster.

That's it!

As an equal opportunity luster, I simply can't pinpoint or perfectly describe to someone what or who I find attractive. It's just something that I know.

Sometimes that guy is blond or brunette, white or black or Indian, tall or short, great arms, great ass, facial hair, tats, etc, etc, etc.

Sometimes it's a girl.

I still would never describe myself as bi-sexual. I'm just an admirer of the female form, and, well, sometimes I like to play with girls, too.

Recently we came across a term: bi-playful

Yeah, I think that describes me. There are definitely times when I just really want to be with a girl. I've been jonesing pretty hard for one lately. In fact, I nigh on picked up a girl at a club the other night.

Do you know what today is?

Sure, it's the Winter Solstice.

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But even more important than that at least to me.

It's my ANNIVERSARY!!

It's been SEVEN delightful years, and yes, it's still true...

Hope everyone in the northern hemisphere has an enjoyable Winter Solstice tonight. Stay warm.

You know we will. *wink, wink*

Birthday Celebrations Part 1

I had my birthday all planned out - work (including a birthday lunch in the office with my co-workers), yoga, dinner.



The yoga class was free, but I had to redeem it on my birthday. I really had wanted to go, but around 4pm (class started at 4:30), I just wasn't feeling it.



Instead Jasper met me earlier than planned and we hit up a happy hour instead. Earlier in the day, I'd received some birthday wishes from an old friend on Facebook. I met him in Hawaii nearly ten years ago. You may remember his friend from this post. I'm pretty sure this guy was sleeping in the next room when I first had anal sex.



Anyway, all that is really irrelevant other than this guy wanted to fuck me, but I ended up with his roommate instead. He was randomly in MN a few years later, and we met up for drinks. Good times. :)



So, in our chatting (all clean, I promise) on my birthday, he said I should I have drink for him. I upped the challenge and had happy hour at a restaurant that shares his first name. :)



After one drink each and an order of fries, we headed to the restaurant to meet my brother and his girlfriend for my birthday dinner.



They were a little late because of the extra traffic due to the Twins game. We didn't mind because we were outside on the patio, and before a Twins game there is some really great people watching (ie lots of great asses).



I was a little more interested in drinking than in eating, but I did have two pieces of bruschetta for an appetizer. Jasper and I split an entree, and I really had to struggle through finishing my half. I got a free birthday sundae, of which I had maybe two bites before I started to feel a little queasy. Jasper and Kari (brother's girlfriend) were more than happy to finish the sundae for me.



After dinner, I suggested going to an Irish bar next. I'd promised my Facebook friend that I would have a drink for him, and he'd suggested Jameson's. I thought the Irish bar would be perfect for that!



Continued here...

Sixty-Nine

Some nights, it's simply inconceivable for me to deep throat. My gag reflex is too high; my tummy is too queasy; I simply don't feel like it.



The other night was just one of those nights.



Normally, Jasper doesn't like the sixty-nine position because he can't get as deep down my throat.



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BUT since I wasn't feeling the deepthroat thing, I asked if we could 69 instead. I wanted to be on the bottom, and fuck if this wasn't just about the best 69 we've ever had. He was so into eating my pussy, and it was driving me wild!



He tried a couple new tricks that I thought I'd share with all of you, since it was so incredible for me.



The first thing he did surprises me that I enjoy it because I don't normally like when he touches this area. I don't know what to call it, so if there is a better name, please let me know. At the bottom of my cunt, where it forms the lower point, is a little flap of skin that he stretched taut and flicked with his tongue.



Again, normally I don't like this, but I don't know if it was just the position of him being backwards and on top or what, but it felt really damn good.



Now the second thing he did really rocked my world. It felt so incredible, but I really couldn't describe it until I asked him (after we'd finished) what he'd done.



He spread me wide, stuck his tongue in as deep as he could, and blew air into my pussy. Absolutely phenomenal! I mean, I just couldn't get enough!









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An Interview with Jasper (and a review)

I agreed to write a review of the Maximus lubricant. At first, I thought this would be a great opportunity to try out a new lube. Unfortunately, writing the review became a real struggle. We simply do not use lube very often. When we do, it's because it has become absolutely necessary. By that time, I am rarely able to focus on the lube itself, as I am too focused on the pleasure of the sex I am enjoying.

So, I kept putting off writing this review.

Meanwhile, the bottle kept getting emptier and emptier. ;) I asked Jasper to write a review on this water-based lube, but he didn't know what to write.

Then, I came up with a brilliant idea of doing a little Q&A with him. I figured it might be kind of fun for you all to get to know him a little better. Let's go ahead and jump right in.

Q: How often do you masturbate?
A: Every other day

Q: Besides lube, do you use any other kinds of aids to help you out? Toys? Pictures? Videos?
A: Videos

Q: What's your favorite kind of porn? Any favorite pornstars?
A: DPs and sometimes gang bangs. I have a huge list of favorite pornstars. Top among which would be Tiffany Rayne, Amber Rayne, Taylor Rain, Bobbi Starr, Rachel Starr, Belladonna, and Jane Darling.

Q: How would you describe your experience using Maximus?
A: Quite good.

Q: Does it stay nice and slippery or do you need to reapply frequently to keep it from getting tacky?
A: It starts very slippery, and it stays slippery longer than any other lube I've used, but if you masturbate for a long time, you do eventually have to reapply.

Q: About how much do you need for a session? In other words does a little go a long way?
A: Yes, a little goes a long way. One pump will usually do the job; two pumps maximum.

Q: Do you have any comments on the packaging?
A: I very much like the pump. The bottle is a clear cylindrical minimalist design, which I appreciate.

Q: Overall, would you recommend this lube?
A: Highly.

Thanks, Jasper!

I hope you've found this review to be helpful. Don't forget to visit Eden Fantasys for all your adult toy needs.

Margarita Craziness

Last night Jasper and I had a dance lesson.
Just for fun.
Our instructor is super bubbly and great to work with.

Our lesson was supposed to be from 6:15-6:45, but we were a few min late and her next appt must have canceled because our lesson went just past 7.

Apparently they just changed their hours for the summer as well, so the group class was now at 7:45 rather than 7:30. This kind of threw our plans for a loop as we had to get the car back by 9.

Still, we were going to try to make it work and just leave the group session a bit early, so when the host at a restaurant across the street asked to seat us, we told him we were in a hurry to get back across the street in half an hour.

Our server was prompt and had been told by the host of our time crunch. He made some menu suggestions, and we ordered before he even left our table.

I ordered their #1 margarita. As you know, I'm kind of a margarita/tequila girl, but this one was either just too strong, or I simply wasn't feeling it, but it just wasn't going down as well as normal.

Oh, and I was already feeling pretty buzzed halfway through.

Jasper doesn't normally like margaritas or anything with tequila, but after I'd complained about it enough, we switched drinks. I was more than happy to finish sucking down his vodka pineapple/orange, and he didn't mind this margarita at all. Weird!

By this point we simply were not feeling the group session at all and decided to just head home. Perhaps stop at Walmart for a couple things since we had plenty of time with the car now.

We weren't too far down the road before I asked to suck on his fingers.

"Did that feel good baby?"
"Mmmhmm. But I'd really like you to suck on my cock."
"Well take it out then." :)

I pretty much sucked his cock off and on for the remainder of the drive. (Wanna see a pic of his beautiful cock? Check out yesterday's 365 post.)

I really had to pee, and he wanted a smoke, so we made a pitstop at home before heading to Walmart.

By the time I'd finished in the bathroom, he was naked on the bed. After a few mild protestations (e.g. I thought we were going to walmart.), I knelt between his legs, taking his cock into my mouth once again.

I sucked.
We fucked.
I sucked.
We fucked.

He lied me on my back.
I opened my mouth.
He came on my tongue, face, chest.
Mmmm.

We quickly cleaned up, headed to Walmart for the much needed chocolate milk and variety of M&Ms (Wtf? Was that really a necessary trip?), and returned the car on time.

What a night!

Footloose, Footloose!

Saturday night was the last swinger's party until September. We went without any expectations other than to dance and have fun.

And that we did.

Somewhat early on, I pointed out a couple that I thought looked interesting. Several times throughout the night, we intended on approaching them, but then one of them would leave, and we really wanted to approach them both.

The woman and I did exchange smiles several times - she has a fantastic smile - but that was it.

The party was winding down, and we found ourselves on the dance floor again. This couple happened to be dancing nearby. The DJ was playing Footloose, and I was really getting into it - pulling out my best moves and ultimately just having lots of fun with it.

Again, the woman and I exchanged smiles.

I think we may have danced another song or so. I know some time elapsed before Jasper and I were heading off the dance floor. The woman stopped and made a comment about my Footloose moves.

I smiled.
I laughed.
This was the perfect opening to begin a conversation.

Her husband hadn't noticed right away that she had stopped and was now chatting with us. He soon came back and the four of us talked until the party was over, and we were asked to leave the ballroom at the hotel.

We stood out in the hallway with this couple until 2:20am. Our feet were killing us from standing stationary for too long. I am hopeful we'll be able to hang out with them again.

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We had gone to another event Friday night as well and had met a couple that we seemed to have quite a bit in common with. They were at the party Saturday night, too. It was fun to chat with them two nights in a row. Hopefully we'll be able to meet up with them sometime, as well.

******
Once when Jasper and I were dancing, a woman came up and started grinding/dancing with him. That was really fun to have him sandwiched between us! For most of it, he had her ass grinding up against his cock. She was pretty aggressive, and Jasper was absolutely loving it. I was behind him, with my front to his back, but occasionally, I would separate from the two of them - just to watch. I've never really watched anyone dancing with him before, and I have to say it was delightful!

******
On the drive home from the party, I was drunk. And tired.
I told Jasper I wasn't sure if I was up for sex.

I'd changed my mind by the time we walked in the door. :)

But I told him I wasn't sure if I was up for giving him much head.

I was wrong again.

I sucked his cock, getting him nice and hard, and then I climbed on top - cowgirl style.
I climbed off, wanting more of his cock.
I spun around, so we were in 69 position. I wanted a little pussy licking, too.

After a few minutes, I climbed back on top. Sliding his cock in and out of my dripping pussy.
It all felt so good!

But I wanted him in my mouth again.
So, I slid off. Positioning myself between his legs. Taking his cock, dripping with my pussy juices, into my mouth once more.
I sucked and licked and kissed.
Pressing my nose into his belly.

When I thought he was getting close, I climbed back on top to tease him with my cunt. Grinding deeper. Sliding up and down.

Back and forth from pussy to mouth, I was enjoying the pleasure I was bringing him. I wanted to keep up this alternating pattern - bringing him to the edge and then switching. It was intoxicating to me.

After 4 or 5 rotations, Jasper couldn't take anymore. He came hard in my pussy. Mmmm.

******
I hope you all had a fabulous weekend, too!

TMI Tuesday: Seven Deadly Sins edition

This week's theme is the 7 Deadly Sins:  lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, wrath, envy and pride. Heelsnstocking suggested the theme and she and Hedone developed today's TMI Tuesday questions. Don't forget to stop by and visit other bloggers playing TMI Tuesday.

1. LUST (excessive sexual appetites): Besides your current significant other, for whom do you lust or who have you lusted for in the past? Does your significant other know about your lustful desires?
There are just so many! CB from the bus. Our Ukrainian neighbor. A couple from church (she's a yoga instructor). A couple blogging friends (you know who you are). Plenty others.
Oh, yes! Jasper knows about every one of them. We often discuss them during, well, you know.

2. GLUTTONY (over-indulgence): What food brings out your inner glutton?
I'm a total sucker for just about anything sweet. Cookies are probably my ultimate downfall. If I have one, I easily have a dozen. :( I enjoy lots of other foods as well, and have a tendency to overeat. *sigh*

3. GREED (avarice): When it comes to sex, what are you greedy for? When it comes to things, what is it that you want more than your need or deserve?
SEX - I'm pretty greedy all around. I like sex to be all about me. I don't always get it this way, but if I could just lie there and allow someone to devour me, oh damn! I'd just be in heaven.
THINGS - I guess I'd have to say clothes. We live pretty modestly and don't accumulate a lot of things, but I would love to have a full closet and lots of variety.

4. SLOTH (idleness/procrastination): Name a task or activity in which you perpetually procrastinate.
Hands-down, my homework. Especially if it's for an independent study online course where I have to make my own deadlines. I also procrastinate a lot of housework.

5. WRATH (anger) is manifested in the individual who spurns love and opts instead for fury.
a. Describe a time that you were very angry?
Generally speaking, I don't really get very angry.
b. Have you ever been so angry that you thought about revenge? Did you seek it?
No and No.

6. ENVY (jealousy): Who or what do you envy? Why?
I envy those who don't have to live paycheck-to-paycheck.

7. PRIDE (vanity) is the love of one's own excellence, and it is considered the worst of the 7 Deadly Sins.
a. When preparing to meet a lover, what are you most vain about?
I guess I'd probably say the way I dress. I try to find the sexiest, most flattering outfit.
b. What sexual skill are you overly proud and boastful about?
My deep throating skills. :) In reality, I probably talk a better game than in real life, but you can judge with this short video. What do you think?
c. What part of your body are you proud of, boastful about?
Last week's HNT was boastful about my neck. I also think I have nice eyes and cute toes.

Bonus:  What sin do you think is your greatest virtue? For example, what bad thing makes you more appealing?
Perhaps a combination of LUST and PRIDE. Jasper says I'm a pretty fantastic lover because of my enthusiasm. Plus, my lustfulness comes out in my writing. I am Lusting Lola, afterall. And I think my pride in myself, my looks, my writing make me more appealing.
All my readers....I'd love to hear your answer to this question...

Now, go visit Hedone @ The Pleasure Principle to see who else is playing this week.

***Next week's TMI Tuesday theme will be the 7 Heavenly Virtues*** Can't wait!!!

Monday Memories: Discovering Jasper Watches Porn

Now, keep in mind when you're reading this memory that it occurred when we were very much ensconced in practicing our religion - a religion that promotes chastity before marriage and is vehemently opposed to all types of pornography.

I hadn't watched any porn in years and had never really watched much of it. I was under the impression that the same was true with Jasper.

This was about 5 years ago, so the details are a bit foggy. We were living in Brooklyn at the time. I had a job that required me to awake much earlier in the morning than he did, so I often went to bed several hours earlier than him.

One morning, I woke up and heard voices coming from the living room. It totally freaked me out! What the hell was going on? Jasper was sound asleep next to me, so I decided to go check it out.

I peeked my head around the corner (the livingroom was adjacent to the bedroom in our small 1-bedroom apt), and didn't see anyone, so I ventured out further.

Imagine my surprise when I realized Jasper had just left the computer/TV on and right there in front of me were two girls gettin' busy.

I was intrigued.
Ashamed.
Horrified

Pornography was wrong!
I couldn't believe Jasper was indulging in this.

And yet...

I wanted to watch more.

But...I was pressed for time.

I shut off the video.
And went off to carry on with my morning routine - putting this to the back of my mind.

I can't remember if I confronted Jasper before I headed off to work or waited until I got home. Regardless, he apologized profusely and said he wouldn't do it anymore.

I asked how long it had been going on. I can't remember his answer.

I was probably too preoccupied secretly wishing he'd offer to watch porn with me. I remember really, really wanting to but was conflicted by also thinking about how wrong it was.

Took another 4 years or so before we ever watched porn together.
And oh! my! god! was that ever HOT.

A memory for another time, perhaps. :-*

Date Night

The last time we met up with CL1, we were pretty disappointed. He was several hours late and then only hung out with us for a short while before we all separated and went to our own homes. It was really frustrating!

After that encounter, we decided we would leave meeting up again to him. The first time was so good, so we were willing to give him another try.

So, the Saturday before Easter, when I received a text message from CL1, Jasper and I were really excited! He wanted to know when we could all get together again. After a few texts back and forth, we decided to meet up Friday night at a bar downtown.  We hadn't been out in awhile, plus it's always exciting to have the possibility of having a threesome.

We met around 9pm at a pretty crowded tequila bar. Jasper and I ordered drinks while we waited. We were pleasantly surprised when CL1 showed up. He looked good! He ordered a drink, and we hung out at the bar for awhile - enjoying good conversation and good margaritas.

Another bar patron joined our conversation for a few minutes. He was pretty hot, too. Reminded me a little of Vince Vaughn. Him coming over to chat with us boosted my ego a little.

Damn, I was looking hot that night! After our second round was finished, I suggested we head to another bar. It's a fun outdoor bar with a fire in the center. It's generally a little quieter and more mellow. Unfortunately, it wasn't really open. We could have ordered drinks inside and then taken them out to the bar, but there was no bar service outside.

CL1 suggested we go to a rooftop bar a couple blocks away. We've been there before as well and really enjoyed it, so the three of us walked to that bar and headed to the rooftop. When we got to the floor below the roof, CL1 said he needed to go to the bathroom and that he would meet us on the roof. We said ok - not thinking anymore about it.

After about 5 minutes, we joked that we'd give him another 15 before heading home. Unfortunately, that joke turned into reality.

We waited and waited.

Finally, I sent a text message asking if everything was OK and if he was still coming to the roof.

No response.

WTF??

I mean I was looking damn good.

I had been more talkative than usual.

The conversation seemed to be going very well. 

We don't know what happened.

The timing was horrible, too. We missed the last free shuttle by only 5 minutes. The next train was 15 or so minutes away, so we ended up taking a cab home.

The night wasn't a complete disaster. At least Jasper and I did enjoy some amazing sex when we got home.

The day, I tried my best to not dwell on the events of the night before. I tried not to figure out what went wrong. What I could have done differently to change things. Pretty sure, though, we won't be giving CL1 another chance.

Afterall, we still have not received any explanation.

Good Friday

Yesterday was both a holiday from school and from work. I found myself with some free time in the morning as I generally awake much earlier than Jasper.

I spent awhile playing with my nipples while reading The Sex Experiment. I found myself completely intrigued and engrossed and turned on. Here's the description from the side bar:

We're a married couple living in a sunny, exotic country. We love sex but have it much less often than we used to. Recently I discovered my wife's diary and her surprising sexual fantasies. Torn between jealousy and excitement, I sent her an anonymous e-mail from a "secret admirer" proposing a series of sexual challenges to fulfill. I have no idea if she knows the admirer is me, no idea what her responses will be, and no idea where this goes.

You can start reading about his experiment here. It's really fascinating and did I mention arousing?

So, I got through the first two challenges before I was so worked up that I had to go wake Jasper for some morning playtime.

I crawled into bed next to him and snuggled for a few minutes. I was the little spoon. Obviously, snuggling wasn't going to help me in my situation at all, so I had him roll over to his back and take off his boxers. He was pretty much awake at this point, so I told him to just lie back and pretend to still be sleeping. It's not often, but sometimes I like to take over the fucking. Give him a break from doing most of the work; give me control over what I want to do.

I started with little kisses. All over his body. I spent some time kissing and licking and teasing his nipples. I kissed all over his chest. I kissed his scruffy cheeks. His neck. I worked my way back down his chest to kiss all over his belly. Down to his hipbone. Kissing. Licking. Teasing. Nibbling.

I kissed his balls. Swirling my tongue around them. Licking them up into my mouth. I hovered my mouth over the shaft of his now hard cock, letting my breath envelope him. I took the head into my mouth. Licking ever so slightly with my tongue. I licked up his shaft. Swirling my tongue all around. I bobbed my head up and down for a few minutes. Getting his cock nice and wet.

Probably not the best, most intense blow he's ever received, but this morning was about me. He was to be my fuck toy.

I straddled him. Guiding him inside me. Filling me just right. I nearly came instantly as I lowered my dripping pussy down onto his hard, wet cock. It was fantastic. My body quivering with the sensation of being filled completely by him.

I slid up and down. Riding him for a few minutes.

Then I got up on my feet, providing a slightly different angle inside. It was feeling really good, so I increased the intensity of my thrusts. Riding him faster. Harder.

In that position, I spread my knees, so they were nearly straight out to my sides. This felt incredible! And sent me into another fit of orgasm as I continued to ride, and he began fucking a little as well. We continued this until I simply couldn't anymore.

I slid off him and turned around. Sliding back down into a reverse cowgirl situation. I knew he'd want to look at my ass, and I wanted to more easily play with his balls. First we started with his legs together. This was good (I was pretty much screaming from pleasure at this point) but didn't really give me the access to him that I wanted.

I had him spread his legs. I hooked mine under and around his. I played with his balls. Circling them with my fingers. Grabbing them. Massaging them. I explored and massaged the area between his balls and anus. This was really turning me on.

I knew I need to have my ass fucked.

I slid off him. Handed him some lube, and told him to lube up my ass. I wanted him on his knees, with me in basically the same position I'd been in. As he was lubing me, he stuck in one finger. Two. It felt so tight. So good.

His cock slid in easily. I nearly came again upon entrance. He grabbed my hips and started fucking my ass. It felt so incredibly good! I reached underneath me to try and play with his balls some more. I got a little distracted playing with my clit. It was nearly too much for me. I moved back and played with his balls some but couldn't help but return to rubbing my clit some more.

He grabbed my hair with one hand and pulled me up onto my knees. Reversing the roles. Making me his fuck toy. Wrapping his other hand around my throat, he fucked me harder. Faster.

Ohhhh, fuck...I'm cumming. He murmured.

I pressed my ass deeper back onto his cock. As his orgasm subsided, I collapsed back down to the bed and began feverishly rubbing my clit with his cock still deep in my ass.
I climaxed again.
Bucking.
Thrusting.
Quivering on his cock.

I softly continued to rub my clit as I collapsed to the bed, and he pulled out. As I lied there, he paused for a moment before rushing off to the bathroom to clean-up. He gently rubbed his fingers along my back and ass cheeks. So tender.

It was a delicious way to start my day.

TMI Tuesday 4/18

1. Have you performed a strip tease for a lover? If you had music, what was the song?
Sadly, no, I have not. Should I add this to my bucket list? lol!

2. "I'll show you mine if you show me yours"...What is it that you will show me?
Idk. Tits?

3. Have you ever let someone else bathe you although you were perfectly capable of doing it yourself?
Absolutely!

4. If you were asked, "does the carpet match the drapes"... Would your answer be "yes" or "no"?
(In case you are not familiar with this idiom, it means does the hair on your head match your pubic hair. I know, classy right? :D :D Hey! It is TMI Tuesday)
When I let my carpet grow, then yes. :) But sometimes, it's all bare.

5. Who has done something within the last 24 hours to show they care for you? What did they do?
A friend (you know who you are) sent me an Easter package with some very cute panties included. Totally out of the blue and made me smile!

UPDATE: Here is a picture of the panties. Aren't they cute?

6. Who was the last person you hugged romantically?
My husband.

7. What do you prefer to do after sex?
a. Go for another round! <----- But sometimes this, too! :)
b. Cuddle and talk
c. Eat
d. Fall asleep <----- Generally this!
e. Shower
f. Get out!

Bonus: Anal sex...giving or receiving, which do you prefer?
Receiving, for sure. I've done a little giving but haven't really enjoyed it incredibly much. Perhaps with time.

******
I think my TMI answers are kind of lame, so let me share a couple fun tidbits.

The last time we had sex, it was so good Jasper came a little unexpectedly. I can't remember the position(s) we started out in, but there was a good amount of back and forth between my pussy and mouth, which he loves! The good part came when I lied on my back with him straddling me and my legs together and crossed at the ankles. He fucked me a little like this, but it became unbelievably fantastic for him when I started doing the fucking from underneath. I just bucked my hips until he couldn't help but cum.

It was a little sooner than expected, so when we were finished, he went to clean up while I attacked my clit. After he clipped my nipples, it didn't take long for me to cum. Ooooooo yeah! It was really good.

The other day I was at Whole Foods and ran into CB from the bus. He was shopping with his girlfriend, who, oddly, he didn't introduce me to. We stood and chatted for several minutes, while she flitted around continuing with the shopping. We talked about traveling to the Caribbean and all I could think about was how fun it would be to rip off his clothes...in the Caribbean or anywhere, really. Mmmm....

Trying New Positions

I should be doing the dishes or jumping in the shower, but I don't feel like doing those things. I'd kind of rather be going back to bed rather than beginning my day. I've been kind of down lately. Maybe if I write a quick blog post, it will help my mood.

One thing I love about my relationship with my husband is our willingness to try new things. It surprises me how some times just the tiniest of change in position can make a world of change.

The other day, I was lying on the bed.
On my stomach.
Naked.

Jasper came up behind me and just starting kissing my ass. It was indescribly fantastic. He was showering me with light, little kisses right where my ass cheeks met my legs. I can't recall him ever doing this before. Maybe he had. Maybe he hadn't. I just know how incredibly good it felt. I know, technically, they were not butterfly kisses, but that's what it felt like to me in my mind as I lied there enjoying his attention.

As we progessed in the session, we also tried a new anal position. I remained lying on my stomach while he lied on top of me, but with his head down by my feet. We were both horizontal on our stomachs with his cock in my ass. It worked really well for us, and felt omygod so amazing. Plus it's fun to grab onto his feet as my bod began to quiver.

We've done it in this position a few more times. Mmmm...

Now my panties are damp, my nipples are hard, and I've got to get ready for class.

I'm off to take a nice, hot, steamy (if you catch my drift) shower.

Happy Friday!

Six Years Ago Today...

It was a cold, snow-covered Tuesday in Minnesota.

Six years ago today....

I awoke early in the morning.

Rushed home from Jasper's apartment. 

no one could know I'd spent the night; it's not what good girls do.

Proceeded to do 5 (or was it 6) loads of laundry.

Met my sister  and went to the church to decorate.

Six years ago today....

I married my husband.

*Click* for color version

It was a simple ceremony - followed by a simple reception.

My little sister did such an awesome job on the decorations!

It was magical.

After the guests had gone,

and the gifts were loaded in our cars,

we headed back to his apartment.

His roommates were both out of town for the upcoming holiday.

Thankfully.

Because it didn't take long before we were fucking in my wedding dress on the living room floor!

Made for an interesting experience when the pizza delivery guy rang the bell.

No, we didn't invite him in.

No real honeymoon for us, but we did stay in a hotel downtown the next night.

It was perfect.

Today...

I can't imagine anyone bringing me as much joy and happiness as Jasper does.

We are truly meant for each other.

Our love knows no end.

"Perhaps the most compatible couple I have ever met. They adore each other."

- My brother's girlfriend.

"We both really liked how in love you two are, how you respect each other, and the fun you have together." - F&S

 

Swinger's Party (Afterword)

Continued from here ...

F&S were kind enough to give us a ride home, so we wouldn't have to take public transportation. (We don't own a car.) I was pretty much moving in slow motion the rest of the afternoon. It took me for.ev.er to change out of my outfit from the night before - even though we were both very hungry! We went across the street for some pizza.

Jasper and I fucked once more when we got back from eating, and then we crashed. We. were. out. When I awoke, my entire body was aching - like I'd just completed the most intense total body workout (which I guess I had)! And the scale showed a 2 lb weight loss! Yay!

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The next day I got the sweetest email from S. I thought I'd share a few of the nice things she had to say (with her permission, of course).

"I have to tell you that I had no idea what we were getting into when we invited you back, but boy did we hit the jackpot with you two."

"You were incredible, and I still have a hard time believing you haven't been with a woman before....amazing."

"I have never cum so much in one night in my entire life."

"F has also never experienced deep throat like you were able to do...He won't soon forget your skills." (Further confirmation that I Give Good Head.)

"Everything they say about hotel rooms is true. We proved it!!!"

"We both really liked how in love you two are, how you respect each other, and the fun you have together. Plus you are both great kissers, which is not easy to come by."

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Here are a few quotes from our fun:

“It’s really hard to sleep when the 3 of you are fucking on the bed." -

F had developed a headache at some point in the festivities.

“We sheened the room!”

“Everywhere I step is wet!”

“I’m so thirsty, I need an I.V.”

“Is that a Stoli-Absolute?” If Jasper were a bartender, he would put bars out of business and customers in the hospital. :))

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And here are a few more pictures (compliments of F&S. THANK YOU. You are amazing!)

Bedtime snack

Deep Throat

Friends

Heart

Polka Dot Target

Ride the Train

I hope you've enjoyed my recounting the events of our first swinger's party; I certainly enjoyed sharing it! I'm definitely looking forward to some more adventures with F & S, so stay tuned. 

Swinger's Party (Part III)

Continued from here...

Shortly before 6AM, my long-term memory started functioning again.

F and I were playing on one side of the bed, and I remember hearing the following:

Jasper: Oh my! I can't believe she's squirting again. It's so amazing!
S: Mmmm

Of course, I wanted in on the action. I loved lapping up every drop of her lovely juices. I stopped what I was doing and focused on her. I playfully pushed Jasper out of the way, so I could lick and suck and probe. It was so delicious. I felt like I couldn't get enough. I would retreat and let Jasper work his magic some more while I kissed her on the mouth. As soon as I'd hear those sweet words, "She's squirting," I'd move back down for some more.

At one point, I was enjoying her with my mouth, and Jasper asked me to suck his cock (something I normally LOVE doing). I pretty much pushed him away and said I was busy. I just. could. not. be pulled away from her delicious pussy.

Shortly after six, someone mentioned the time. I remember freaking out at how there was no way it was already after 6; seemed like it was just 1:30 a few moments ago (come to find out, in my brain, it was). There was a bit of teasing about my time warp.

Even though we'd been at it for more than four hours, it didn't seem like we were anywhere close to finishing. I can't remember any kind of play-by-play, but there was definitely lots of play! We all went down on each other; we all fucked each other in such a variety of ways. It was fantastic!

S squirts; I, apparently, buck. During one particularly strong orgasm for me (I believe I was being fucked by Jasper at the time), F&S commented on my bucking. They started calling me bucking bronco because of how much I would thrash when cumming. It was cute. My own little pet name.

Finally, we started to feel a little worn out. We all fell asleep around 7:30AM. Jasper, Lola, F, S. All snuggled together. Mmmm....

Around 10:30AM, I began to stir. Yeah, I wanted more. I was on my side facing Jasper's back; F was lying on his side facing my back. I reached behind me and found his cock. Hard, waiting. Already. That really got me going. Jasper turned to face me. We kissed while I stroked F. The three of us played for awhile. Quietly. At least I was trying to be quiet. I didn't want to disturb S. I thought it would be nice to let her sleep a little longer.

It wasn't too long before I had F's cock deep in my mouth! Oh, do I love deep throating!

I don't think that S could stay asleep with all our moving around. All four of us were so dehydrated! We started consuming water like crazy! F even started the hot water in the shower to get some steam/moisture in the air.

We just kind of lazily played for the next hour or so. Light kissing. Lots of gentle caressing. Tender licking, sucking. It was a perfect way to wake up!

It didn't last that long when the all-out fucking began again. Now, I don't remember the play-by-play (not because of a black-out but because of the lapse of time from then until the writing of this post plus there was just. so. much. going on), but here are a couple scenes that I do remember.

Jasper lying on his back. I was straddling him, cowgirl style. F attempting to come in my ass for a little DP action. I'm not sure if it was my ass or his cock, but something wasn't cooperating. I had Jasper come out of my pussy, so perhaps F could come in easier. No dice. :( The attempts at double penetration felt so wonderful, though. I was sad it wasn't working.

The room was slightly divided, so from the area with the couch, there wasn't a clear view of the bed. I don't what what we were doing, but at one point, Jasper and I came around the corner to see S lying on her back on the bed while F fucked her standing at the edge of the bed. It was such a beautiful sight! I remember crawling up on the bed and just watching her (Well, I licked and sucked on her breasts a bit, too. She wasn't really into nipple play, but I still gently bit at her gorgeous nipples). She was gorgeous to watch! I loved watching the bounce of her breasts, hearing her softs moans. I adored watching her cumming. She would turn her head to the side, and giggle so softly. It was incredibly cute.

Then, it was my turn. I lied on the bed next to S in the same fashion as she had been lying. F moved over and fucked me just as he'd been fucking her. Oh. It felt so good. His cock sliding in and out of my pussy. Pounding me harder and harder. My breasts jiggling from the impact. I felt like I could be fucked all day! It was so damn good!

My favorite memory of the whole experience was the last position we did. S was lying on her back again, same position as before. F was fucking her, just as before. I was watching. He suggested I move over and straddle her face, so she could eat me while getting fucked. Who was I to turn down such a fantastic offer? I moved over, straddling her and facing him. I can't even describe how good this felt.

I looked over at Jasper, feeling a little bad that he might be feeling left out. The smile on his face clearly revealed that he was enjoying the show. I asked him to come closer, so he could at least play with my nipples while I rode her face. And so, every now and again, he would reach over and give my nips a little pinch and a tug.

We kept up with this position for quite some time. F would fuck S. Then, he would pull out so I could slip his cock in my mouth. I would bend over, and lick his shaft, savoring her taste. I would take his cock inside and slide my mouth up and down. S did a fabulous job on my pussy. It was incredible to be able to watch him fucking her while feeling an orgasm building up inside me from her skills. Oh, it was delightful!

As the pressure mounted, I began grinding (and, yes, bucking, a bit) on her face. I lustfully watched him fucking her. I more hungrily took his cock in my mouth. Cumming like this was so. damn. powerful. My legs were shaking. My hips were bucking. My pussy was convulsing. My entire body was quivering with pleasure.

It was the most fantastic way to end our play time with F&S!

To be continued here...

Swinger's Party (Part II)

Continued from here...

When the party closed down at 1 a.m., we grabbed our coats and followed F & S to their hotel room.

These two came prepared! They practically had a full bar. Plus they had other cool ambiance-creating toys (F brought some of his club lights from his DJ'n kit), and a whole backpack of adult toys (which we didn't end up using at all).

They had tequila. Patron. Sometimes I'm a real sucker for tequila shots. Well, I used to be, anyway. It had easily been 7 1/2 years since I'd last done any tequila. I used to be hardcore about it - no lime, no salt. Anyway, back to the present. The tequila didn't quite go down like it used to, so S was kind enough to share her limes with me. (As prepared as they were, they forgot the salt. :() We made do just fine without it, though.

Tequila leads to kissing.
Or should I say more kissing.

And this is where the fun really began.

Unfortunately, I don't remember a lick of it. :(

Thankfully, F took a. lot. of photos, and they were gracious enough to share a few with us (and even gave permission for me to post a few here).

So here is a very, very brief glimpse into what transpired over the next 4 hours...

Jasper and I having some fun with S.

I really, really enjoyed S's pussy.

Jasper did, too. She was a squirter!

Continued here...

Swinger's Party (Part I)

This past weekend, Jasper and I went to a XXX-Mas party. It was our first swinger’s party, and we were a little nervous. No better way to fight nerves than by looking fabulous! I was dressed to the nines in a very sexy little Santa’s helper outfit – a shiny, green, halter dress with white fluffy trim at the hem, white fishnet thigh-high stockings and knee-high white boots with faux laces up the front (there was also a zipper).

We arrived at the hotel, hung up our coats, and walked to the table to check-in and pay. I went to the area that said First Time Attendees.

I did a double take. Tapped Jasper on the shoulder and said, "Look forward."

He, of course, thought I was going to be pointing out a really nice ass or something.

No. Unh-uh.

There was my big sister (5 years older than me) with a huge doey smile on her face!

I had no. fucking. clue. she would be there.

Oddly, like a week or so before the party, Jasper, jokingly, said to me, "Wouldn't it be weird if we ran into your sister and her husband at the party?" I had said whatever. They totally won't be there. They're not swingers! He pointed out a couple of things he'd noticed over the years, but we’d pretty much dismissed it as an unlikelihood.

Not only were they there. BUT they were working (she at the registration table; he doing security)! Turns out they've been working these parties for the past FOUR years and have been swinging for TEN!

Jasper had totally called it!

My BIL had seen us walk in, so he’d warned my sister before we even saw her.

Still, she was so flustered that we were there, that she forgot to have us sign the form we needed to sign and everything else first-timers were supposed to do. My BIL had to come find us and have us return to the table and do all those things.

It was so crazy that they were there! It took a couple hours (who am I kidding? I'm still a little weirded out by it) to come to grips with her being there.

Of course, after a few drinks, it started to bother me less, and I insisted we pose with Santa together. The person taking the photos suggested to his wife that we should kiss above Santa. Her reaction? “They’re sisters! That wouldn’t be good.” True. I don’t think either of us would’ve been up for that. We got to fight over Santa instead. Hopefully the pics turned out well. Supposedly, they should be available for download in a few days.

I started telling everyone she was my sister. :) Not sure she appreciated that. haha!

The party was good. Fun. My BIL described it as a high school dance, but for the adult, swinging folk. There was a bar and a lot of tables and a small dance floor with a DJ. There wasn't really supposed to be any action at the party. It’s not like it was an orgy or anything. Quite a few skirts/dresses came up (yeah, mine included), and a few boobs came out, and there was some minor making out, of course, but in general it was mostly just flirting and dancing. It was more like a party where you can just meet others in the Lifestyle. After the party, there was a playroom that you could go to. No single men, no overly intoxicated people. The party was at a hotel, so a lot of people had gotten rooms as well.

Since it was our first time, and a lot of people already knew each other, we were pretty wall-floweresqe for the first few hours. Besides, I was still pretty tripped out about my sister being there, and Jasper was checking everyone out—looking to see if we would run into anyone else we knew. We were nervous about how to strike up a conversation with anyone. We did a lot of watching and looking and pointing out couples that we might be interested in.

Finally, around 11:30 or so, we grabbed another drink and Jasper said, "I'm going to go start talking to those two guys." I asked why. He said because they're with those really hot girls.

One of the two girls was one we'd been watching most of the evening (we’ll call her A). She couldn't seem to keep her dress down. She was always pulling it up, showing her ass (which was quite nice). Once, on the dance floor, she pulled it all the way up to her bra! This, of course, really turned Jasper on, so he definitely wanted to get closer to her.

So, he walked up to these guys, saying something about how it was our first party blah blah blah. We didn't know the best way to get to know others blah blah blah. A’s husband (J) said I should go out, take off my dress, and come back wearing only my lingerie. That would get us some attention. The other guy (F) told us not to believe anything this guy said. :)

The two girls (A and S) were sitting at the table, making out. A had taken her tits out, and her husband grabbed my hand, and placed it on her right tit.

I was thrown off a bit. It was the first tit (other than my own, of course) that I’d ever touched. I didn't know what to do. It made me a little awkward. I mean these girls had amazing breasts! So much bigger than mine. I loved the way they looked, felt. Still, it was awkward. They were sitting at a table; I was standing, reaching across him.

Next thing I knew, the two girls were pulling me down. I squatted next to them, and they just starting kissing me. All three of our mouths were kissing. It was pretty fantastic. I’d never done anything like that before! After kissing for a bit, one of the men pulled a chair over for me, so I could sit. I don’t know which one. My focus was elsewhere. There was more kissing. A little bit of touching.

That’s when the liquor really started to hit me, and the trips to the potty began. I have to pee. a. lot. when I drink.

In between trips to pee, the 6 of us kind of dispersed and were just here and there, flitting around. I think I pretty much stayed sitting. I chatted with F quite a bit.

Jasper got to do a little playing/flirting at the party. He enjoyed making out with A in the foyer. He said her skin was so incredibly soft! I know he definitely wanted to play more with her, but it wasn’t in the cards that night. Both her and her husband were way. too. drunk.

There was a fine looking black man with dreads that I’d seen my sister talking to earlier. He was quite hot! When my sister was finally relieved of her duties (we were able to hang out a bit more. I got less and less weirded it out and more and more curious about it all), she was kind of hanging out with him (or he was hanging with her). I joined them, of course pointing out that she was my sister. He found that to be fascinating, so naturally, he asked if I’d ever been with a black man. To which I replied that I hadn’t. Out came his phone, so he could get my number. He texted me “D here…...black guy with dreds,” so I’d have his number as well. (Of course my BIL warned us off from him, but he’s hot, so I was still pretty excited to get a text from him today. :))

I was so glad that Jasper had decided to approach these two couples. Turns out we really clicked with F & S! They were totally fun to talk to, and oh, so fuckable (Didn't I mention her fantastic breasts?)! As it neared 1am, it was pretty clear that we would be going with them to their hotel room. Yay!

To be continued (here)…

Massage...and a good night...

Jasper's back (and butt and hamstrings and calves) has been hurting him at lot lately. Basically, there's been a knife stabbing him throughout the day for more than a week. I hate to see him in such pain, so I wanted to do something special for him last night.

Inspired by Marcus over at Fun and Dirty Thoughts, I decided I'd surprise him with a nice massage - complete with oil and candlelight. I'd slipped into something sexy, lit candles all around the bedroom, and waited. When he got home from class, I was ready.

He was all too happy to accept.

He lied down on his stomach, and I poured a generous amount of oil into my hands. Starting with his low back, where the pain had intensified, I worked him with my hands, forearms, elbows. Adding just the right amount of pressure, I could hear him gently moan at how good it felt. I worked up and down his corded muscles, offering the little reprieve from pain that I could.

I moved down to his buttocks. Massaging. Gently grazing between his cheeks. Down to the hamstrings and calves. The oil, making it so easy to get down and deep, moved my hands around his body effortlessly. I worked his inner thigh.

This was the best, longest, massage I've ever given him, and I could definitely feel myself getting wet as I gently brushed his cock and balls, working my way up to his lower back again.

I slipped off my bra and panties, and asked him to roll over. I wanted to massage his front area. I grabbed his cock in my oiled palm and stroked it up and down, feeling it pulse against me. I gingerly rubbed his balls as I put his erect cock in my mouth.

I love a nice dick in my mouth, and he loves having it there. He grabbed my hair and fucked my face. Gentle at first, then with more intensity. I could feel his cock slapping against the back of my throat. And then slide in deep and deeper until his head penetrated the well, and I could take no more. I came back up, letting my spit linger and drip down his cock.

I needed him inside me! I climbed up cowgirl style, sliding him inside my tight pussy. I could feel him filling my cavity as he slowly pushed his way inside me. I fucked him with long and gentle strokes, coming slightly off each time. Enjoying the long ride with each stride. On and off. In and out.

Leaning back, I gyrated my hips and ground him deep, deep inside me.

I wanted more. I wanted to feel him in my ass.

Leaning forward, I reached my hand around to finger my ass. It was completely covered with cream. I'd never felt so much of myself slip between my fingers. It was delicious! I caressed my ass between my cheeks, pushing slightly on my hole.

"I want you in my ass, honey."

I reached for his cock, rubbing my juices up and down his shaft. I positioned it over my asshole and slowly pushed until it filled me quite nicely. He grabbed my hips and fucked my ass. It felt so good to have his slippery cock thrust inside me. Again and again. And again.

I leaned back, so I could have good access to rub my clit while grinding down on him. Allowing his cock to penetrated even deeper. Moving slightly up and down his shaft, and I rubbed my clit fiercely. I know just how I like it, and it feels even more fantastic with a cock in my ass.

Oh. Oh! Oh!!

My body trembling, I collapsed on his chest with a smile on my face.

Completely sated.

Wanna lick?

HNT: My Roman-esqe God

**Clicky-Clicky**

The other day Jasper and I were taking some sexy photos. Jasper described the click-through pic as a very Roman pose. I liked this series so much that I told him it was going to be my next HNT. Hope you all like it, too.

Be sure to click here to see all the other HNT submissions.