TMI Tuesday - What Would You Do?

What would you do?

1. You encounter a good looking lost and frantic tourist looking for the airport. You:
A) Shrug your shoulders, feigning ignorance.
B) Find the shortest route on your smartphone and get him/her a cab.
C) Direct him/her to the nearest bus stop.
D) Get your car, pick up him/her luggage and speed to the airport.
Of course, D is the most appealing (but it would require me owning a car. haha!), because then Lola could work her magic and get his trip off to a great start. *wink*

2. You’re taking a vacation alone. Your destination:
A) Beach resort — I just want to relax and de-stress.
B) A group tour — I don’t want to worry about the details.
C) Wherever the dart lands on the map.
D) Every country with a hostel — my backpack is my home.
It's kind of a toss up of A or B, but I think I'd ultimately choose B because I don't really like lying on a beach all alone.

3. Blackout! You can’t watch TV, so you light some candles and:
A) Dig up some batteries and listen to the radio.
B) Invite the neighbors, light a fire and sing camping songs all night.
C) Find a friend and play games that don’t require electricity. . . Like chess.
D) Drive to the next town — oh sweet Wi-Fi, I’ve found you!
I'm not really one for chess, but...

4. The man/woman of your dreams has finally proposed. The relationship is perfect, they are everything you’ve ever dreamed of and ever wanted. They are also a multi-millionaire and want you to sign a prenuptial agreement. Which would you do?
A) Sign it
B) Just not get married
If he is my dream guy, then the prenup will be fair. Plus, if we are marrying for love, then the rest shouldn't matter.

5. If you were going to marry an inanimate object, what would you marry?
Note: A woman has married the Eiffel Tower and another has married the golden gate bridge. Read about it HERE
Wow. This is just weird. I can't think of any inanimate object I would marry.

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TMI Tuesday - Dating

Welcome to another TMI Tuesday. This week’s topic is dating. Even if you are not single or dating you can easily answer the questions as if you are single and dating. It’s fun, enjoy!

DATING

1. You’re on a speed date. You’ve got 7 minutes with the potential partner. You already know the person’s name. What are the first three questions you would ask? What do you do for fun? Does your wife know you're here? What are you looking for? (Honestly, I'm not sure I would ask any of these questions. Well, maybe the first one, and then see where the conversation goes.)

2. Have you ever participated in speed dating? Did you get a regular date/second date out of it? I have not. I always thought it would be kind of fun, though.

3. Do you participate in online dating? How many dates have you had as a result of online dating sites/matches? Before I was married, I went on a couple (2, maybe 3) dates through match.com (is that still a site?). After being married, we've gone on 2 dates via craigslist.

4. You are attracted to:
a. Who people are? Smart, funny, and yes, physically attractive
b. What people have? Not really sure. Have a sense of humor. Have a great personality. Has money?? :-)
c. What they can do? Hold a conversation. Treat me like I'm the most important.

5. What “little red flag” will cause you to end a date or immediately decide this person isn’t for you? I'm honestly not really sure.

6. What do you feel you need to sacrifice or have sacrificed to be a part of a relationship? I don't feel I've ever really had to sacrifice much. Sure, I don't always get what I want, but really I think that's better. I don't spend nearly as much money on clothes and food and drinks because now what I spend affects both of us.

7. If you cooked for your date, what would you cook? Ooh. I'm not sure. Probably a pasta dish. I make a really great spaghetti pie. Or if I have a lot of time to prepare, I'd possibly find a new recipe.

8. At the end of a first date, how would you kiss your date? Well, now, this would entirely depend on the overall feeling of the date. I've ever been above fucking on the first date. I'd say probably any of these options are viable - depending on the end-of-date vibe (and perhaps how much I'd had to drink).
a. Press your lips against theirs
b. Gentle kiss on the cheek
c. Lots o’ tongue, like you’re on a tonsil exploration
d. I don’t kiss on the first date

Bonus:  You just put up a profile on a dating site. You must describe yourself in 10 words or less. What are your 10 words? Confident, sensual woman who enjoys new experiences and meeting new people. (Ok. So, that's 11 words. 10 words was too difficult. Even these 11 words don't really describe me, but might be appropriate for a dating profile). Now it's your turn...what 10 words would you use to describe Lola?

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TMI Tuesday - Naked

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions are brought you by Yummy aka Heelsnstocking and Hedone. Thank you HnS for the theme.

NAKED

1. What do you wear to sleep in?
I generally only sleep in panties - mostly because I'm too lazy to change into pajamas. Stripping down to my panties is far easier. :)

2. Do you ever walk around your own place naked?
Um, yes. Jasper hates wearing clothes and pretty much has walked around naked since we first got married. I guess this has worn off on me over the years. I'm often at least topless, and occasionally I'll be pantiless as well. This can often be attributed to the laziness factor. hahaha.

3. Have you or would you ever answer the door naked?
I have not and probably would not. I *might* answer the door scantily dressed but never naked.

4. What part of your body do you like to be on show? Why?
I guess my cleavage, because it is the easiest.

5. When sunbathing how much do you bare?
I'm not much of a sunbather. Not with my fair, fair skin. I have spent more time outside doing various activities this summer than usual, but rarely just lying out.

6. Have you or would you bare all on a naturist (nude) beach?
I've never had the chance (i.e. I've never been to a nude beach), but I'd like to think that I would, if the opportunity arose.

7. Have you ever flashed your bits in public? If not would you if it turned your partner on?
Um. Yeah. I'm doing the Scavenger Hunt, you know. This is much more of a turn on for me than for my partner, though.

8. Have you ever given a striptease or has anyone given you one? Did you enjoy it?
I have never received a striptease nor have I ever really given one...in person. Of course, you may remember this post when I did a little striptease for all of you! I *may* have done another striptease or two on camera. Those I do enjoy very much. :)

9. Ever gone skinny dipping? Alone or with others?
Sadly, I have never gone skinny dipping. One day...

10. Do you like to look at naked people or do you want show off your nakedness?
Um. Both?

Bonus: Sexually speaking, what’s the furthest you would go with a partner in public? Have you had sex in public?
I've had sex in plenty of semi-public areas (parking ramp, street, alley, darkened area of campus). Blowjobs driving down the road, in Burger King drive-thru. I've been fingered on the bus. Guess there's not much I wouldn't do.

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TMI Tuesday - Cheating

Her: I saw you flirting with her. Cheater!
Him: It's not cheating if we don't have intercourse.

1. You have been separated from your significant other for six months. An attractive, attentive neighbor has paid you flattering attention. It is obvious he/she wishes to take the relationship further. Do you:
a. Dismiss him/her, you're in a committed relationship.
b. Continue to flirt, but go no further.
c. Fantasize about him/her, but take care of your sexual needs solo.
d. Let the affair become physical.

This would really depend on what kind of arrangements we'd made before our separation and the nature of the separation. I'd like to say D because six months is a long time, but Jasper and I aren't quite to that point yet, so definitely B, and of course, C.



2. A male co-worker whom you have heard is great in bed and very well endowed has been flirting with you a lot. He obviously wishes to start a relationship. Do you: (This question is for women AND men).
a. Make it clear to him you're not interested.
b. Flirt with him but go no further
c. Mentally undress him and wonder what he'd be like in bed.
d. Let the relationship become sexual.

Um. B-D? With Jasper's consent, of course. I'm great in an MFM, so maybe we could try that. lol.



3. Your significant other is impotent most of the time, showing little interest in you and little interest in being sexual. Do you:
a. Resign yourself to no sex.
b. Satisfy your needs with masturbation
c. Find someone who can satisfy you sexually but remain with your significant other
d. Leave him or her

Absolutely B, and I'd like to think C would be an option. I doubt I would leave him over such a thing, but if he truly stopped showing an interest in me - sexual or otherwise - I'm not sure how long I'd be able to stand that.



4. The last time you and your mate had sex, were you:
a. Concentrating mostly on him/her, and you didn't even orgasm
b. Thinking about your pleasure and theirs.
c. Concentrating mainly on your own pleasure.
d. Used his/her body as a tool to reach your own orgasm.

I think the last time it was a little more about me. :) So, maybe it was C, but no, I think it was somewhat equal, so B. It's just he was doing such a good job on me, that my focus may have drifted a little away from him.



5. What kind of partner do you prefer while making love or having sex?
a. Tender, loving, slow and sweeet
b. I don't care, just do me; it's been a while
c. Tough, take-charge, I like it a little rough
d. Any lovin' is good lovin'

Sometimes it's C; many times it's A; all the time it's D.



Bonus: Do you mind if your significant other ogles/checks out another sexy person? What if they comment on that person, do you mind that? I really never have. Well, I guess that's not entirely true. Sometimes it bothers me but only because I then start comparing myself to all the other women out there and start having body image issues. I know it's all in my head, and Jasper is fully satisfied with me and thinks I'm beautiful, but still, sometimes insecurity creeps in. All that being said, we have often done a lot of people watching together - pointing out all the nice asses and attractive people. Good times.



Bonus, Bonus: What are your thoughts on the TMI Tuesday image and the caption beneath it? I think it's a fun, interesting photo that perfectly captures a moment. I have mixed feelings on the caption. What is cheating? There seem to be so many definitions and so many different lines. Personally, I think if it makes your partner uncomfortable, you shouldn't do it - whatever your definition may be.


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TMI Tuesday - In the Summertime - UPDATED

1. What is your favorite summer clothing item or outfit?

A few weeks ago, I purchased a pair of jeans shorts. They have quickly become my absolute favorite. It could be that they are a size 6, which I haven't worn in forever. It could be that they are super comfortable and not overly tight. It could be that they are sexy and flattering to my legs and ass. They have cute little side zippers on the legs, too. I pretty much wear them almost every day. If I get a chance, perhaps I'll snap a pic later tonight and update this post. I know how you all love pictures.

Updated: I'ved added a picture of my new favorite shorts.

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to see color version

2. Did you or will you take a summer vacation? If yes, where did you go?
Kind of , sort of, maybe. It really depends on your definition of summer vacation. We've had some great summer vacations in the past (the 4500-mile road trip in 2009 was probably one of my faves), but this summer has been very busy for us with running and scuba diving and school. We will be joining my family for a few days of their week-long vacation at a lake up north. We weren't going to go this year, but we were talked into it a couple weeks ago. I love going up to the lake and just being in nature. Canoeing, kayaking, hiking, running, swimming. Fires, stories, laughter, s'mores. Good times.

3. What is your ideal weekend away (e.g. city, beach or wilderness)?
Anyway weekend away would be ideal. I just love to travel and see/experience new places. I could just as easily be happy taking a weekend in the city or lounging by the beach or hiking in the wilderness. It's been an incredibly hot and sticky summer this year, so I'm leaning more to saying I'd prefer a weekend trip to the beach. We've gone to the beach the past two Sundays with my family, and the couple hours we spend there never seem long enough to me. I've never really been much of a beach person, but this summer I definitely am and could easily see spending an entire weekend lounging at the beach.

4. What would you pack for a naughty weekend?
Hmm... not much different. Maybe some skimpier, sexier clothes. We don't need much to make it naughty. lol

5. What item(s) do you never unpack, never take out of the luggage from trip to trip?
Toiletry-type items. Spare pair of contacts, travel soap/shampoo, etc.

Bonus: Last vacation sex... Tell us what happened
Have we not gone anywhere since Costa Rica in January? How sad. :( I just looked through my past blog posts from Jan and Feb - hoping to link to some sexy tales of our vacation in Costa Rica....and I found NOTHING! How disappointing that I didn't ever really get around to blogging about the trip.

We were there for over a week and had lots and lots and lots of sex. It's been nearly 8 months now, so I'm not sure I can actually remember in any detail any juicy stories - at least not without taking more time to ponder it, and I really need to get back to my monster spreadsheet at work.

Perhaps another time...

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TMI Tuesday: At The Movies

1. Why do you go to the movies?

a. To feel
b. To think
c. To escape
d. To enjoy the air conditioning

Generally, I go to the movies to escape, I suppose. It's more like to relax, enjoy, and be entertained. I have also been known to go simply to enjoy the a/c. When Jasper and I were married about six months, we made a trip out to NYC. We stayed in a tiny little hotel room in Times Square. In June. Without any air conditioning. Or maybe there was, but it was still so fucking hot. We were there for a week, and we spent the better part of the first several days walking around the city. Everyday, we ended up in Battery Park. Not sure how or why, but we did, and if you know anything about Manhattan, Battery Park and Times Square aren't exactly nearby each other. Especially in the dog days of June. By Day 5, we were exhausted. We spent the last couple days of our vacation across the street at the movie theater. It was always crowded, and the other patrons were often annoying at best, but we were able to get some brief reprieve from the oppressive heat.

2. In the last six months, have you viewed more movies at home or at the movie theatre?

Definitely at home.

3. What was the last movie you watched at home? At the theatre?

At home? How Do You Know. While there were some great lines, I definitely wouldn't recommend this movie. The story was pretty lame and slow moving.

At the theatre? Transformers: Dark of the Moon. Yesterday, I posted a little review here, so I'll just leave it with a simple I loved it and would definitely recommend it to all my readers.

4. Which do you enjoy most in a movie?

a. Two beings battling to death such as Godzilla and Mothra (or any foe), Gladiator
b. Car chase scene such as Ronin, Fast & the Furious
c. Major heist such as Italian Job, Ocean's Eleven, Snatch
d. Epic battle scene such as Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings: Two Towers

Absolutely not D. (I haven't even seen either of those movies) or really A. B. has some great possibilities, and I would probably enjoy it, but C. would have to be my favorite. I love to watch all the planning that goes into pulling off the heist!

5. In your opinion, which movie(s) have the best or most enjoyable sex scenes?

I can't really think of any specific movies. *gasp* I guess I don't really watch movies for the sex scenes. *sigh* Speaking in generalities though, I'd say movies when the sex scene is the culmination of some action-packed sequence/storyline or perhaps something in a romantic comedy.

6. Which of these is your favorite Hollywood movie plot?a. Boy meets girl
b. The Jesus Story (apocalyptic; someone is saving the world)
c. Fish out of Water
d. Buddy movie

I guess I'll go with A on this one. :)

7. What is your favorite movie genre? (Thriller, comedy, action/adventure, drama, mystery, fright, etc.)

Not sure I really have a favorite genre. My least favorite is science fiction, though. Or really anything mystical. Not a big horror or scary movie fan, either. I'm pretty much good with a romantic comedy, comedy, action/adventure, drama or mystery. If the story is good and not too slow, I'll probably enjoy it.

8. In movies, what makes you cry?

a. mistreatment of a prime, likeable character
b. gushy, mushy romance (e.g., marriage proposals, couple finally proclaim their love)
c. very scary jump-out-at-you, make-you-pee-your-pants scenes
d. anyone or anything dying

Absolutely, without a doubt D. Sometimes A or B as well.

Bonus: What is your favorite movie? Why?

This is a tough one because I have so many favorites! I adore Notting Hill. I love the story and the cinematography is terrific. I love The Notebook and Can't Buy Me Love because they both will always, without a doubt, make me cry at the end, and sometimes I just want a movie that will do that. I've enjoyed watching Pleasantville many, many times. I think there are a lot of messages in that movie, plus I love the use of black and white as well as color, and Reese is also just adorable. Dirty Dancing is fun because I just love watching couples dance. I love the Ocean's Eleven movies because of the yummy men and all the planning that goes into the heists (as mentioned earlier). There are probably lots more, but I think that's good for now.

TMI Tuesday: Regrets

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REGRETS

1. What was the last thing you regret buying?

A pair of black pumps. They were super cute. Classic. I swear they fit me perfectly in the store, but when I got home, they were simply way.too.big. I bought them specifically for a wedding and suffered through wearing them (I'd bought them at a no-returns store); though, I ended up being barefoot most of the evening. I recently gave them away to my nephew's girlfriend.

2. What was the last sex toy you regret buying?

I guess perhaps the pair of vibrating panties I bought this past Valentine's Day. They did provide some delightful fun while at the restaurant that evening, but ultimately did not work exactly as I'd have liked. I could have created the exact same effect with a bullet we already had at home and normal everyday panties. Alas.

3. Briefly describe a time that you had sex, and you should not have. Why did you do it?

I'd only been dating A a few months. No, I think it may have been over a year. Regardless, I was going home to visit my family. I got a cheaper flight out of a nearby city, so I spent a couple days visiting a friend before flying home. One night we went out to a club. We danced. We partied. We drank. A lot. We ended up going home with the bartender and one of his friends. She spent the night upstairs with the bartender, and I had some amazing sex with the other guy.

The next morning, we vowed not to tell anyone - especially A.

I was too wracked with guilt. I was not nearly as open then as I am now, and A certainly wasn't either. I broke down and told him over IM the next day. What a terrible way to break such devastating news! Anyway, I know I really hurt him. It also made for a bit of a stressful visit home.

Why did I do it? Well, alcohol lowers those inhibitions, I suppose. I just let myself go and enjoy the situation. It only became a regret later.

4. If you could choose to stay a certain age forever, what age would it be?

I'm honestly not sure. I had some great times in high school, college. Lots of fun in my 20s. I'm loving my life right. I also know that I have great things in my future. I'm nearly 34 now, but honestly, I think I'd want to stay 38 forever - even though, I'm not there yet. That just seems like a great age. Not too old. Not too young. Plus hopefully we'll be well established living in the Caribbean by then and simply continuing to enjoy life!

5. A good friend’s significant other flirts with you; would you tell your good friend?

I guess it would depend on the intensity of the flirting.

6. What is your greatest professional regret?
Not studying abroad in college. I was accepted into a program, but later decided I couldn't afford it. Now, I think of it as a great missed opportunity. I don't like to think about how it may have affected my life.

Bonus: What is your biggest regret?

I really don't think I have anything that could qualify as a "big regret." I've really tried to live my life the best way I've seen fit, and everything I've done has helped shape me into the person I am today.

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TMI Tuesday - Two Weeks in One

Ok, I really liked the questions for TMI Tuesday last week, but I never got around to actually answering them and publishing a post. So, when I saw that this week's questions were just a continuation from last week, I simply couldn't resist.

TMI Tuesday 7/5
1. If you could clone yourself, what part of your duties would you hand over to the clone:  (pick one)
a. Paying the bills
b. Cooking
c. Having sex with your significant other
d. Going to your job on your behalf
Absolutely, positively, hands-down I would choose D. I really dislike my job, and even more than that, I dislike waking up to an alarm and having to be somewhere for specified hours. I'm a lounger at heart. Plus, if I didn't have to work, perhaps this little blog wouldn't be nearly so neglected.

2.When you are performing oral sex on a lover is it generally:
a. Because you are trying to warm them up and have it lead to intercourse
b. You love to give oral pleasure
c. They want it, so you oblige but don’t really like it
d. You like to worship cock or pussy
Honestly, it really depends on the day and my mood. Sometimes I do it for a warm-up because I really want to be fucked. Sometimes I really do love giving it and wouldn't dream of doing anything else. Of course this almost always will lead to it being a warm-up. I know this might come as a shocker, but sometimes I do it just because Jasper wants it even though I'm not really in the mood for it.

3. What part of  love making does your partner speed through?
a. seduction
b. foreplay
c. the deed itself
I'm not really sure that seduction is ever really on his mind. I would love to be a bit more wined and dined. Not that I am complaining. I'm never, ever denied. Yeah, I'm pretty damn spoiled.

4. What part do you wish they’d speed through?
I hate to admit this, but oftentimes, I wish he'd speed through the deed itself. He can go a long, long time, and I'm actually quite the fan of a quickie. Usually my mind begins to wander and I think about how much I need to sleep cuz I have to work in the morning or how many things I need to get done around the house. Although, I do like sightseeing from time to time. :">

5. Who is the last person to grab your ass? When?
Jasper, of course! Recently, I'm sure, but I can't recall any specifics.

TMI Tuesday 7/12

1. Which would you rather do and why?
a. yard work or house work - This always seems like it would be a little less strenous.
b. hike or run - This is a really tough one. I run a lot, but if I could choose, I think I'd choose hiking. It's easier to slow down and really appreciate the beauty of nature when hiking than when running.
c. outdoor sports or indoor sports - I'd much rather be outside.
d. fast food burger from the drive-thru or sit-down salad - I'd rather sit down and savor.
e. yoga or aerobics - I don't do it very often, but I like the centering that yoga brings, and I'd rather run or bike to get in cardio.
f. ice-cream or cake; what kind? It just seems lighter and less filling. I'm not terribly picky about my ice cream. I recently had salted caramel, and it was really tasty. I'm also perfectly content with vanilla.
g. ice cubes or hot wax; where? why? Ooh! Definitely hot wax. Anywhere. Tummy. Tits. Nipples. Not so much pussy, unless I'm recently shaved. Otherwise, OUCH! when trying to remove it. I like the anticipation of the hot wax dripping on me.
h. beneath the sheets or on top? I like to start beneath the sheets, though it doesn't normally take too long before I throw the sheets aside. :D

2. What was your favorite subject in high school/secondary school/upper school?

I'm not sure I actually had a favorite. I was good in most subjects, and I enjoyed school for the most part, but I wasn't really passionate about any particular subject.

3. Do you get a full 8 hours of sleep a night? Why or why not?

Almost never. I *try* but I generally have to get up so early, and I hate having to go to bed so early. Plus Jasper generally stays up so late that it's easy to stay up later than I should.

4. What is your favorite comfort food?
First thing that comes to mind is pizza. Is that a comfort food?

5. Do you match up your socks after washing and drying them, and before putting them away?
Absolutely!

6. If you were a crayon, what color would you be?

Idk. Red? Cuz it's bold and bright. Well, maybe that's more the color I'd want to be. Doesn't really, truly describe me. Maybe I'm more of a pale yellow. Sunny and bright but still quiet and subtle.

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TMI Tuesday 5/31

1. What time did you go to bed last night and were you alone?

I was in bed before 10pm. Alone. Well, Jasper was in the same room - just not in bed with me. I had a headache and was completely beat from my 30-mile bike ride earlier in the day. I had to get up early for work this morning, so I wanted to get to bed early last night.

2. If you could be given ANY gift what would it be?

This is really tough. I'd love a spa package & shopping trip to somewhere exotic. Perhaps Dubai.

3. What was the last film that really moved/disturbed/thrilled you and why?
I simply do not watch very many movies anymore. I did just watch Die Hard for the first time this past weekend. I guess that could be categorized as thrilling. John McClane is a total badass, and Bruce Willis has such piercing eyes. Plus, lots of action. How could it not be just a little thrilling?

4. What is your favorite way to wake up and what is the first thing you do?

The laziest way possible. I love, love, love it when I don't have to set an alarm and can just wake up whenever my body feels rested and ready to get up. I usually check my phone for emails and sometimes scroll through Facebook.

5. You’ve been granted an extra hour in the day, what are you going to do?

a. Sleep more

b. Extend a sexual interlude

c. Shop

d. Finally fit in that workout that you usually can’t make time for

Hmmm....I think it would absolutely depend on the day. Most likely, A. Unless I'm already well rested, then definitely B.

BONUS:  Are you in love or lust?

I'd say both. With the same man. I'm just as lucky to have him in my life as he is to have me.

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TMI Tuesday: Seven Contrary Virtues

The 7 Contrary Virtues stand in direct opposition to one of the 7 deadly sins, which were addressed in last week’s TMI Tuesday.

Sin	Virtue
Lust (excessive sexual appetites)	Chastity (purity)
Gluttony (over-indulgence)	Temperance (self-restraint)
Greed (avarice)	Charity (generosity)
Soth (laziness/idleness)	Diligence (zeal/integrity/labor)
Wrath (anger)	Patience (composure)
Envy (jealousy)	Kindness (admiration)
Pride (vanity)	Humility (humbleness)

1. CHASTITY – Not just moral wholesomeness but treating sexuality with due reverence and respect.
It’s too late for you horny people to be virgins, and I know you can’t practice chastity. So…if you had to cut back on one sex act, for 90 days, what would that be? BTW…How old were you when you lost your virginity?
If I had to cut back on one sex act, well, I could cut back on anything. I wouldn't want to, of course, but I have extreme faith in myself that I would be able to. BTW...I was 20 when I lost my virginity.

2. TEMPERANCE – Learn how to control sexual desires rather than fulfilling them.
I know many of you are wanking double time in honor of May Masturbation Month, what’s the longest you’ve gone without masturbating? Was it self-induced or did someone command you not to masturbate? Did you find it frustrating or liberating?
While I do very much enjoy masturbation, I generally do it purely for the fun/enjoyment/pleasure of it. I don't really do it because I think my body/mind needs to do it. I've probably gone years without masturbating. Mostly this was done as a commandment from church leaders. I don't think I found it particularly frustrating or liberating. It was just what you do (or rather don't do).

3. CHARITY – A willingness to give, freely and without request for commendation.
Have you ever had sex relations with someone just because you felt badly to turn them down or you felt sorry for them?
Oh, sure, I have. Plenty of times. Well, not the feeling-sorry-for-him part of the question, but the feeling-bad-about-turning-him-down part. I think sometimes it's part of being married. Give and take. Sometimes he has done this for me, too.

4. DILIGENCE – A zealous attitude and careful nature toward living and sharing.
Are you a diligent lover? Do you offer more than 10 minutes in the missionary (i.e., lazy lover)? What do you do that makes you a diligent lover?
I'd say I'm fairly diligent. It's pretty rare for us to do missionary position, so I guess I don't really offer more than 10 minutes. What makes me diligent? Hmm. I tend to be slightly selfish, but I do try to make sure that both our needs are met. If diligence is defined as a "zealous" attitude, then my enthusiasm should definitely score me some big points.

5. PATIENCE – Seeking appropriate resolution to conflicts, and on the ability to forgive and show mercy.
Your lover never seems to be in the mood for any kind of sexual activity. How patient are you? Do you:
a. Gingerly and sweetly try to talk to them about it and coax them into being in the mood.
b. Force yourself on them by making them feeling guilty about “denying” you so you get pity sex.
c. Go off and masturbate to satisfy your urges?
d. Hang your head low and hope tomorrow will be the day he/she is in the mood for nookie.

6. KINDNESS – Manifests as the unprejudiced, compassionate and charitable concern for others.
You are an enlightened sexual being full of sex positivity, confidence, and you love sex! Your motto is to “practice random acts of sexual kindness.” I’m curious what would your most prolific act of sexual kindness be? Why?
Last week, I put that deepthroating was one of my best and most boast-worthy sexual skills. I'm going to have to go with that for my most prolific act of sexual kindness as well. Why? Because it's relatively selfless. I mean, I do enjoy giving head and deepthroating, but ultimately, it's still much more for his pleasure.

7. HUMILITY – modest behavior, selflessness and the giving of respect.
When are you prone to modesty? In what ways do you look out for the interest of others doing things not from selfishness?
I'm generally pretty prone to modesty (in dress and speech) when I'm around my family. Unfortunately, I feel like I'm pretty selfish - especially when it comes to sex (which is what you readers are mostly interested in, right?) Of course, I do tend to make Jasper a pretty high priority in and out of the bedroom. I think I do a lot of selfless things for him when it comes to housework and schoolwork, and well, yeah, sexually as well.

Bonus: Your lover has made you mad but he/she is clueless and is making sexual advances. You:
a. Stay miffed or irritated at your lover and refuse to have sex
b. Rebuke your lover’s advances and tell him/her “not now because I am upset with you”
c. Set the anger aside and have great make up sex
d. Have selfish sex and do only what you want and take what you need with no regard for reciprocal satisfaction

TMI Tuesday: Seven Deadly Sins edition

This week's theme is the 7 Deadly Sins:  lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, wrath, envy and pride. Heelsnstocking suggested the theme and she and Hedone developed today's TMI Tuesday questions. Don't forget to stop by and visit other bloggers playing TMI Tuesday.

1. LUST (excessive sexual appetites): Besides your current significant other, for whom do you lust or who have you lusted for in the past? Does your significant other know about your lustful desires?
There are just so many! CB from the bus. Our Ukrainian neighbor. A couple from church (she's a yoga instructor). A couple blogging friends (you know who you are). Plenty others.
Oh, yes! Jasper knows about every one of them. We often discuss them during, well, you know.

2. GLUTTONY (over-indulgence): What food brings out your inner glutton?
I'm a total sucker for just about anything sweet. Cookies are probably my ultimate downfall. If I have one, I easily have a dozen. :( I enjoy lots of other foods as well, and have a tendency to overeat. *sigh*

3. GREED (avarice): When it comes to sex, what are you greedy for? When it comes to things, what is it that you want more than your need or deserve?
SEX - I'm pretty greedy all around. I like sex to be all about me. I don't always get it this way, but if I could just lie there and allow someone to devour me, oh damn! I'd just be in heaven.
THINGS - I guess I'd have to say clothes. We live pretty modestly and don't accumulate a lot of things, but I would love to have a full closet and lots of variety.

4. SLOTH (idleness/procrastination): Name a task or activity in which you perpetually procrastinate.
Hands-down, my homework. Especially if it's for an independent study online course where I have to make my own deadlines. I also procrastinate a lot of housework.

5. WRATH (anger) is manifested in the individual who spurns love and opts instead for fury.
a. Describe a time that you were very angry?
Generally speaking, I don't really get very angry.
b. Have you ever been so angry that you thought about revenge? Did you seek it?
No and No.

6. ENVY (jealousy): Who or what do you envy? Why?
I envy those who don't have to live paycheck-to-paycheck.

7. PRIDE (vanity) is the love of one's own excellence, and it is considered the worst of the 7 Deadly Sins.
a. When preparing to meet a lover, what are you most vain about?
I guess I'd probably say the way I dress. I try to find the sexiest, most flattering outfit.
b. What sexual skill are you overly proud and boastful about?
My deep throating skills. :) In reality, I probably talk a better game than in real life, but you can judge with this short video. What do you think?
c. What part of your body are you proud of, boastful about?
Last week's HNT was boastful about my neck. I also think I have nice eyes and cute toes.

Bonus:  What sin do you think is your greatest virtue? For example, what bad thing makes you more appealing?
Perhaps a combination of LUST and PRIDE. Jasper says I'm a pretty fantastic lover because of my enthusiasm. Plus, my lustfulness comes out in my writing. I am Lusting Lola, afterall. And I think my pride in myself, my looks, my writing make me more appealing.
All my readers....I'd love to hear your answer to this question...

Now, go visit Hedone @ The Pleasure Principle to see who else is playing this week.

***Next week's TMI Tuesday theme will be the 7 Heavenly Virtues*** Can't wait!!!

TMI Tuesday 4/26

1. What sexually could you NOT give up for 40 days and 40 nights of sex?
Hmm...this is a tough one....
Kissing, I guess would have to be my answer. There is simply no way I could go 40 days and 40 nights without giving my husband a kiss of some sort. Everything else would be really difficult to abstain from, and I really wouldn't want to, but ultimately, I probably could.

2. As the weather improves would you have sex outdoors? If yes, where?
Oh, yes! Absolutely - even though it is tricky as we do not have a yard or much privacy outdoors. I would like to have sex down by the river. Or camping under the stars.

3. What is the riskiest place you have had sex? And were you caught?
The riskiest place? I'd guess perhaps outside on campus. Luckily, we weren't caught.

4. Ever mixed food and sex? If so what was it and was it pleasurable?
I don't think so. At least nothing that I can readily recall.

5. Ever used a sex toy for something totally non sexual or something totally non sexual as a sex toy?
Sex toy for some nonsexual? Nope.
Something nonsexual as a sex toy? Candle wax, ice cubes, wine bottle, soda can. Nothing too remarkable. UPDATE: How could I forget hair clips, rubber bands, orange marker?

Bonus:  German immigrants introduced the Easter rabbit, a symbol of fertility for the spring holiday.  This past Sunday, did anyone attempt to fertilize your eggs or did you attempt to fertilize someone's eggs ;-)
I guess not. We did have sex about 4am or so Easter morning, but the finale occurred on my belly and tits. Not much chance of fertilization there. :)

Now skip on over to The Pleasure Principle to see who else is playing today!

TMI Tuesday 4/18

1. Have you performed a strip tease for a lover? If you had music, what was the song?
Sadly, no, I have not. Should I add this to my bucket list? lol!

2. "I'll show you mine if you show me yours"...What is it that you will show me?
Idk. Tits?

3. Have you ever let someone else bathe you although you were perfectly capable of doing it yourself?
Absolutely!

4. If you were asked, "does the carpet match the drapes"... Would your answer be "yes" or "no"?
(In case you are not familiar with this idiom, it means does the hair on your head match your pubic hair. I know, classy right? :D :D Hey! It is TMI Tuesday)
When I let my carpet grow, then yes. :) But sometimes, it's all bare.

5. Who has done something within the last 24 hours to show they care for you? What did they do?
A friend (you know who you are) sent me an Easter package with some very cute panties included. Totally out of the blue and made me smile!

UPDATE: Here is a picture of the panties. Aren't they cute?

6. Who was the last person you hugged romantically?
My husband.

7. What do you prefer to do after sex?
a. Go for another round! <----- But sometimes this, too! :)
b. Cuddle and talk
c. Eat
d. Fall asleep <----- Generally this!
e. Shower
f. Get out!

Bonus: Anal sex...giving or receiving, which do you prefer?
Receiving, for sure. I've done a little giving but haven't really enjoyed it incredibly much. Perhaps with time.

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I think my TMI answers are kind of lame, so let me share a couple fun tidbits.

The last time we had sex, it was so good Jasper came a little unexpectedly. I can't remember the position(s) we started out in, but there was a good amount of back and forth between my pussy and mouth, which he loves! The good part came when I lied on my back with him straddling me and my legs together and crossed at the ankles. He fucked me a little like this, but it became unbelievably fantastic for him when I started doing the fucking from underneath. I just bucked my hips until he couldn't help but cum.

It was a little sooner than expected, so when we were finished, he went to clean up while I attacked my clit. After he clipped my nipples, it didn't take long for me to cum. Ooooooo yeah! It was really good.

The other day I was at Whole Foods and ran into CB from the bus. He was shopping with his girlfriend, who, oddly, he didn't introduce me to. We stood and chatted for several minutes, while she flitted around continuing with the shopping. We talked about traveling to the Caribbean and all I could think about was how fun it would be to rip off his clothes...in the Caribbean or anywhere, really. Mmmm....

TMI Tuesday 4/12

1. What is your favorite part of sex?

I know it's going to sound cliche, but I'm not afraid to admit that orgasm is my favorite part. I do love the build-up and the tease and so many other parts, but that feeling of complete, intense, overpowering ecstasy? Yeah, that's got to be my favorite. Hands down.

2. Have you asked your significant other or spouse what their biggest sexual fantasy is? Did you like it or are you not interested? What is it?
Hmm...Let me go ask right now...
He said, "My biggest sexual fantasy? I can't say I have a biggest. I just have a lot that are big."
I told him that was good enough for TMI Tuesday. :)) Hopefully, I have some fun times ahead of me.

3. Do you enjoy phone sex?
I have actually never really had phone sex. Honestly, it scares me a little. What would I say? Would it be erotic? I don't always like the sound of my own voice, but I think I could certainly get on board with someone talking dirty to me and just letting me gasp and moan and enjoy. Yes, that sounds very good indeed!

4. Have you ever had a sexy nickname? How did you get it? What is it?
Sexy? No, I can't really think of anything.

5. What's your favorite color lingerie?
I'm inclined to say red. I think that's just about the sexiest color! I personally don't really own anything that is sexy red, but I love to see a black and white photo with the red highlighted. If not red, then I'd say a bold orange. I also like the classic black.

6. Have you ever had sex with "just a friend" and gone back to "just being" friends?
Yes. You can read a little about it here.

7. If in a romantic relationship or marriage, what is the best thing about it right now?

I think the best thing is trying new things - sexually and otherwise. We have a lot of fun together in various exploits. Laughter is huge, of course, too.

 

Bonus: How did your last relationship end?

Horribly, actually. He broke up with me. Gave some BS reason about how he didn't like the way I dressed. Ridiculous. We'd met at church and both still went to church. We were in a congregation with mostly young adults like us, and days after he broke my heart, he basically told the whole congregation that he was available. What a douche!

Go see Hedone at The Pleasure Principle to see who else is playing.

TMI Tuesday

1. Who would you call for bail money?
My hubs, I suppose. Athough, I doubt it would do any good.

2. Your life has been threatened unless you do one of the three following things. Which would you do? Why?
a. Do a sanctioned and well-promoted strip tease at a WWE event
b. Have sex with anyone of your choosing in a full of trash garbage dumpster
c. Star in your own Girls Gone Wild video knowing that it will be distributed, for free, in your hometown.
Damn! I don't know why, but for some reason sex in a Dumpster sounds incredibly hot. I'll have to find someone other than Jasper to do this with though; it would be WAY too dirty for him. Any volunteers?

3. What is your most hated chore on your household chore list?
Hmm...let's see...the most hated....? My first thought is the dishes (no dishwasher in my apt), because I really hate doing them, but then again, they are the first chore I do, so out of frequency, perhaps I need to choose something else. I really hate scrubbing the shower, too. Guess we'll go with that.

4. Do you perform any chores in the nude? Which one(s)?
I've been known to do just about any chore in the nude. Washing dishes, vacuumming, etc. Some days I just hate getting dressed.

5. When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up? Did you turn out to do that?
For years, I wanted to be a teacher.
Now, I'm back in school working towards that and don't really see myself doing it.

6. One of your scars, how did you get it?
I don't think I have any scars.
I must've lived a tragically boring life.

7. What is on the walls of your bedroom?
A couple Jasper-originals.
C'mon, folks...actual paintings. :)

8. Do you snore, grind your teeth, or talk in your sleep?
I don't think so. I think I've caught myself grinding my teeth, but not often enough to admit that I do it.

9. What type of music do you listen to?
A variety. But sadly, most of my music collection dates to the late 90s/early 00s. If it's not a good beat and lyrics I can sing to, then I'm pretty happy.

BONUS: Buried or cremated? Why?
I'm pretty tempted to say cremated; although, it would probably piss off most of my family. That's not the reason, though. I'm a bit of a minimalist, so....it would take up less space. ;)

Go see Hedone at The Pleasure Principle to see who else is playing.

TMI Tuesday

I loved reading over Marcus' TMI today, so I thought I'd join the fun.

1. When you looked at yourself in the mirror today, what was the first thing you thought? "Just one day I wanna wake up with clear, blemish-free skin."

2. If you could take a class for fun right now, what would you take? Dance lessons. In fact, I've got some vouchers to redeem.

3. What did the last text message you received on your mobile/cell phone say? :)

4. What was the last song you listened to? "I Think I Love You" by Partridge Family

5. What was the last song you sang or hummed (cuz it's stuck in your head)? Same song as #4.

6. First thing you wash in the shower? Left Shoulder

7. When was the last time you masturbated in the shower? Last time I masturbated was last night. After getting my ass pounded. But I was still on the bed. In the shower? Hmm... it's been too long, I guess.

8. What color is your couch? We actually don't own a couch. Most TV/Movie watching is done from bed. We do have a couple armchairs in the livingroom. They are dark brown with gold piping.

9. Have you had sex on your couch? Again, no couch, but we did have lots of sex on our old couch before we sold it, and, course, both armchairs have been appropriately fucked on.

TMI Tuesday and some other Randomness

1.  HAVE YOU BEEN OUT OF YOUR HOME COUNTRY? Yes, Costa Rica!! And the Bahamas (over 10 years ago gasp)

2.  FIRST JOB? Family business and then Hardee's

3. WHAT WOULD YOU DO AT AN ORGY?  Have SO much fun!!

4. HAVE YOU EVER HAD SURGERY? Nope. Never even broken a bone. **Now, where's some wood for me to knock**

5. WHAT DO YOU GET COMPLIMENTED ABOUT MOST? I don't know...my laugh...??

6. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU HAD SEX? AND WITH WHOM? Monday morning around 3:30am with my husband

7. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE? My mom's mom's mom.

8. WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST TURN OFF OF
- Men - Looks (Um. Yeah. I know I can be a bit shallow.)
- Women - Nosy or too into themselves

9. DO YOU HAVE ANY BAD HABITS? Oh sure...procrastination, zoning out

10. HOW DO YOU RELEASE ANGER? I haven't really been angry in a very long time. I know I used to run (wouldn't mind doing that some more). Crying generally helps.

11. WOULD YOU RATHER GAIN 58 POUNDS OR LOSE 58 POUNDS? Definitely rather lose. Gaining is so. much. easier. :)

12. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE QUOTE? I don't think I have one. At least nothing that comes to mind right away.

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I actually made it to the gym this morning. I woke early enough, but it still took me 45+ minutes to get all my shit together, which meant for quite a short run. I plugged my iPod into the treadmill, and it flipped out, froze. I walked for 4 min fighting with it before giving up and running sans music. The run was relatively good. 19 min total; 10:19 min/mi (including w/u and c/d, which generally fucks up my time a little. blah).

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I'm totally in love with the Easy A soundtrack!! I've been listening to it on repeat for days now. So many good songs.

Favorites:
#1 (and my new theme song) - Sexy Silk by Jessica Cornish
#2 The Wolf by The Miniature Tigers
#3 Numba 1 (Tide is High) by Kardinal Offishall
#4 Pocketful of Sunshine by Natasha Bedingfield
#5 When Life Gives Me Lemons I Make Lemonade by The Boy Least Likely To

Of course, I'm really loving almost all of the songs on the album. I just found all these videos on YouTube, but I haven't actually watched any of them, but figured I'd link to them anyway.

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The thong I'm wearing feels amazing today.

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My hair has gotten way. too. long. I desperately need to make an appointment for a cut and color.

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I'm actually pretty excited about my relatively healthy and yummy lunch today. Homemade bean and kale soup. Salad with Roasted Garlic & Rosemary dressing. Celery sticks/Baby carrots. Red grapes. Pretzel M&Ms. Is it lunchtime yet??

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I bought some all-natural / organic (I think) face wash yesterday. Hopefully it will help with the breakouts I've been having. I'm so tired of not having a beautiful, clear complexion.

TMI Tuesday: Travel Edition

So, I haven't posted anything since Jan 1st (when I did post 3 times, so I guess it's okay). I was feeling like I really needed to post something today, but I'm feeling a little uninspired at the moment.

In checking out some of my regular blogs, I stumbled upon the Infidelity Chronicles. They had posted a Travel edition of TMI Tuesday, and I really liked the questions, so I thought I'd play along today. I thought it was also appropriate considering my upcoming trip to Costa Rica (3 days, 5 hours...). So, here goes. My first ever TMI Tuesday.

What is the longest distance you've ever driven/flown/etc. to get sex?
I flew from Minneapolis to Seattle. Mmmm....good times. I still claim that I've never really visited Seattle since I didn't much leave his apartment while I was there. I was a flight attendant at the time and could fly anywhere pretty inexpensively. We were going to try the whole gf/bf thing, but it only lasted that one trip. Not sure we even really talked or emailed much after that. Guess we weren't meant to be.

Do you abide by the motto "If sex happens while I'm in another area code than my partner then it's not cheating"?
Absolutely not! Cheating is cheating. Besides where I live, you could be in another area code in less than a 5 minute drive. I don't think that's exactly what the motto is talking about. My husband and I do have an  open relationship, but we'd still never do anything behind the other's back. Usually I'm too excited about anything I'm doing to keep it from him.

Have you ever had a romantic fling with a stranger while on vacation?
That guy in Seattle? Well, I actually met him while I was visiting a friend in Hawaii. One of the first nights I was visiting her, we all went out with her boyfriend, who was in the Navy, and a few of their other friends. I hooked up with this guy, and we pretty much were together for the rest of the trip. I was a pretty bad friend and ditched the friend I was visiting most of the time. The time I spent with her I was pretty hungover and probably not the best company. Still, one of my favorite vacations.

Soon, we'll be heading out to Costa Rica, so who knows? Perhaps a little strange naughtiness will happen (a girl can hope).

Have you ever had sex with someone from another country?
Sadly, no. Again, perhaps Costa Rica...?

Have you ever moved to another city/state/country for a man?
No. But I have moved to another state to get out of a relationship, but that's a post for another day. Worst break-up in the history of break-ups. Well maybe not, but I think it ranks right up there. I'll let you be the judge once I write the damn post.