Date Night

The last time we met up with CL1, we were pretty disappointed. He was several hours late and then only hung out with us for a short while before we all separated and went to our own homes. It was really frustrating!

After that encounter, we decided we would leave meeting up again to him. The first time was so good, so we were willing to give him another try.

So, the Saturday before Easter, when I received a text message from CL1, Jasper and I were really excited! He wanted to know when we could all get together again. After a few texts back and forth, we decided to meet up Friday night at a bar downtown.  We hadn't been out in awhile, plus it's always exciting to have the possibility of having a threesome.

We met around 9pm at a pretty crowded tequila bar. Jasper and I ordered drinks while we waited. We were pleasantly surprised when CL1 showed up. He looked good! He ordered a drink, and we hung out at the bar for awhile - enjoying good conversation and good margaritas.

Another bar patron joined our conversation for a few minutes. He was pretty hot, too. Reminded me a little of Vince Vaughn. Him coming over to chat with us boosted my ego a little.

Damn, I was looking hot that night! After our second round was finished, I suggested we head to another bar. It's a fun outdoor bar with a fire in the center. It's generally a little quieter and more mellow. Unfortunately, it wasn't really open. We could have ordered drinks inside and then taken them out to the bar, but there was no bar service outside.

CL1 suggested we go to a rooftop bar a couple blocks away. We've been there before as well and really enjoyed it, so the three of us walked to that bar and headed to the rooftop. When we got to the floor below the roof, CL1 said he needed to go to the bathroom and that he would meet us on the roof. We said ok - not thinking anymore about it.

After about 5 minutes, we joked that we'd give him another 15 before heading home. Unfortunately, that joke turned into reality.

We waited and waited.

Finally, I sent a text message asking if everything was OK and if he was still coming to the roof.

No response.

WTF??

I mean I was looking damn good.

I had been more talkative than usual.

The conversation seemed to be going very well. 

We don't know what happened.

The timing was horrible, too. We missed the last free shuttle by only 5 minutes. The next train was 15 or so minutes away, so we ended up taking a cab home.

The night wasn't a complete disaster. At least Jasper and I did enjoy some amazing sex when we got home.

The day, I tried my best to not dwell on the events of the night before. I tried not to figure out what went wrong. What I could have done differently to change things. Pretty sure, though, we won't be giving CL1 another chance.

Afterall, we still have not received any explanation.

Predicament

It's been a few months since Jasper and I decided to open our marriage and just a few weeks since our first threesome, which was with a guy we met via Craigslist. It was such a fantastic night, and we're definitely looking forward to the next time we can get together with CL1.

We've discovered it's so much easier to find men to join us in the bedroom. Jasper really wants to be with another woman (and I do, too), but so far we've had no luck.

We've tried Craigslist.
We've tried Adult Friend Finder.

This past weekend, we attended a wedding out in Oregon. There were definitely some smokin' hotties in the bridal party and in attendance in general. We really, really wanted to hook up with a few of them, but our polyamorous ways are just not that acceptable in society right now.

I got pretty fucking wasted and definitely probably pushed a few too many boundaries. My memory is spotting, but I do recall at least one woman telling me that no, she would not go back to our room with us.

As I was grinding on a married man out on the balcony at the very end of the evening, Jasper was having a conversation with another woman about our views on sexual relationships. She said she was fine with it, but she'd be super pissed at me if I was grinding on her man like that. Which begged the question of why? Why should the blame be put on me when he, whose wife was in the room with their two kids, was doing nothing to push me away, but was, in fact, encouraging me to continue -- especially considering that my husband was present and totally cool with what was going on?? It just seemed odd to both of us.

Anyway, I feel I started to go off on a bit of a tangent. Our predicament is this...we definitely want to be a polyamorous couple but are at a bit of a loss of how to continue, when society is so against us.

For my readers who may not be into the polyamorous thing, how might you react if a couple came on to you in a bar or at a party? For those who might agree with our lifestyle, do you have any good suggestions on meeting like-minded people?

So Damn Alive!

If you've been reading this blog from the beginning (which was only a handful of posts ago), you know that Jasper and I have been toying with the idea of having an open marriage.

We've discovered this is king of a tricky thing to do. We are mostly interested in having sex with another partner at the same time. The idea of doing something behind the other's back or without their knowledge is not the turn-on for us.

So, how do we find other people who would be open to this type of thing?

Craigslist, of course.

We've spent quite a bit of time browsing through the ads in the Casual Encounters section over the past few months, but last weekend, we took the plunge in answering some ads.

We even received a couple response in return.

One sounded very promising, so we made plans to meet for drinks the next evening.

Good conversation, good chemistry.

Yep, we totally got the invite back to his place. Where we fucked and fucked and fucked. I'd like to say til dawn, but unfortunately, after I've had a few drinks, I'm usually unable to remember anything from the previous night, so I can't really pinpoint how late the fucking continued.

This is a real bummer because I have to rely on Jasper to re-tell the stories. Actually, I find that quite hot. And I can imagine what it must have felt like. I have a good imagination for that type of thing. In fact it totally gets me off. I LOVE IT...still, I wouldn't mind being able to remember things myself as well.

Next time, we hope to cut back on my drinking. See if that helps. The problem then may be that my inhibitions may not be as nonexistent as they were last weekend.

Anyway, from what I was told, here are a few highlights from the evening:

• Lots and lots of ass play. Jasper said he got to play with my ass way more than he's ever gotten to before. Tongue, finger(s), cock. He even said he found a spot that drove me into ecstasy. twice.
• My first experience with DP. So frustrated I don't remember that! Definitely something I've longed to try for awhile now. I can only imagine how amazing it must have been.
• So much cock sucking. Jasper said I really did it like a pro. *blushing* Normally, I have a little problem with the taste of my cream, but apparently, I was sucking any cock I could -- no matter where it had just been. Yes, I may have even done a little ATM.
• There was a lot of movement and changing of positions. So much better than the previous threesomes Jasper's had (before he met me) where it was relatively short and static. Sad, really.
• One thing I do remember was hair pulling. Yes, I actually enjoyed it. Of course at one point, as Jasper told me later, I thought it was too much. I thought it was Jasper, but when he pointed out that it was in fact CL1, I was totally into it!
• I also remember how it felt to have CL1 bite my lower lip when his kissed me, and the chills that sprang through my fiber with his touch. Plus he told me I had nice legs. And fantastic skin.

Even though my memory is totally faulty from that encounter. The next day I felt ecstatic! exhilarated! euphoric! Well, yes, and hung-over.

I couldn't believe how ALIVE I felt!

I couldn't stop telling Jasper how ALIVE I felt. It was magnificent!

And definitely on the agenda to do it again. soon.