Tickle My Tush

Tickle My Tush
by Dr. Sadie Allison

A LONG time ago, I was approached by the publisher of this book to do a review. It's long overdue, but I figure better late than never. *wink*

Always wanted to try anal, but didn't know where to start?
Long-time enjoyer of anal, but want to learn some new tricks?

THEN THIS IS THE BOOK FOR YOU!

Sadie has lots of helpful advice to get you started - from why you should do it to cleaning and preparation to exactly how to get started. The book is written in a fun and easy-to-read way with LOTS of great illustrations and helpful tips.

The first six chapters are all about the preparation. Why would anyone want to have anal sex? Is anal sex safe? What about hygiene? What's the backdoor anatomy? What can we do to get in the mood for anal? All these questions and more are answered in these chapters. Even if you're experienced at this type of sexual play, I think there is a lot of great information in these chapters - at the very least it's a good review to help keep you nice and safe.

The next three chapters get into more specifics of what to do. She starts with fingering, moves to licking, and then penetration. She provides great advice on doing all three of these activities, but what I like most is the amount of variety that she provides for each stage. So, even if you're unsure how far you want to go with anal play, there is definitely something for most everyone. Even within these chapters, there are different levels depending on how mild or wild you want to be.

The last few chapters of the book deal with reaching orgasm, anal toys including an entire chapter on strap-ons, and a breakdown of various anal positions.

Something else I enjoyed about this book was that it gives advice for both partners. It is geared a little more toward pleasing the woman, but there are enough examples of pleasing males to help even it out. Of course, Jasper not really into that not sure I'd be either to be honest, but we've got some good advice if our kink ever heads that direction.

If you and your partner are at all curious about anal play, I would highly recommend this book! Try reading it with your partner to get you started. The illustrations and helpful advice is also a bit stimulating, if you know what I mean. *wink*

If you're interested in adding this book to your collection, it can be purchased at the following retailers:
Amazon
Barnes & Noble
Tickle Kitty

Do you experiment with anal play? Why/why not? 
If you do, what's your best piece of advice? Favorite position?
Have you read this book? What did you think?


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Playtime

I don't think I mentioned it, but Friday was my birthday. It was less than stellar, so we decided to celebrate on Saturday instead.

We slept in though that isn't anything new since we're both unemployed at the moment and got a bit of a later start than I'd have liked. Still, we managed to make time for some lovin' before heading out for the day.

I thought it would be a great time to try out some of our new toys.

I unwrapped the Mood Sensuous vibrator and handed it to Jasper.

I let him work me over with that while I checked out Sex! The Card Game of Sexual Positions.

Both of these toys were super fun! 

After I figured out the card game, I fully could enjoy the vibrator. Truth be told, the vibrator made figuring the card game out a little difficult, but nothing Lola couldn't handle.

Let me just say. This was the. best. vibrator. EVER!

It has 7 functions, but these aren't just your everyday, ordinary functions. They are ah-mazing! They don't just vary in speed and intensity like other vibrators I've tried. Some of these functions have delays and variations WITHIN one function. HEAVEN!!

I'm talking total bliss. This is guaranteed to bring any woman to a big O - over and over and over.

After getting a bit spent from the vibrator, we turned to the card game. Now, there are three ways to play this card game. I chose the Fortune Teller option. Basically, you shuffle the deck and then draw cards until you've drawn one of each color. Then, you do the positions on top in order - red, orange, yellow, white, and blue.

Here's what our combination looked like.

Sorry it's so blurry.

This was a terrific treat for me! And, I'm pretty sure that Jasper enjoyed it, too.

Can't wait to use both of these again.

It's Cliterrific!

Last Monday, I took my licensure exams. I had to do a lot of guessing, but I think I did all right. I should get the results in a few weeks, but for now I'm relishing in the fact that they are OVER!

In order to celebrate that night, I decided to spend a little alone time with my Cliterrific Cup before heading to bed. She's relatively new to me, and I'd used her in the shower before, but I wanted to just lie down, relax, and cum and cum and cum.

I lied down on my bed, brought Tumblr up on my phone for a little visual stimulation, and slipped this sex toy slowly into my pussy. The texture felt fantastic, and I could immediately tell I was going to enjoy this. A lot.

I gently fucked myself for a while.
Pushing it in.
Pulling it out.
Feeling the grooves and enjoying the sensations.

Pushing it in deep one more time, I finally turned it on. I adjusted and played with the rotating controls. The end of the shaft swirls in a slight circular motion, and it's easy to switch the rotation from clockwise to counter-clockwise with the push of a button. The intensity of the rotations also has 3 speeds.

Even on the highest speed, the rotations are gentle. Also, I found this to be the noisiest aspect of the toy. It made me a little self-conscious with Jasper in the next room, so I would switch it on and off frequently, but didn't necessarily keep that part running for an extended period.

After playing with the rotation feature for awhile, I turned it off and turned on the vibrator. It only vibrates in the clitoral stimulator, but it was plenty for me. When I had the shaft deep in my pussy, the clit bullet hit my clit perfectly. Even on the lowest vibration setting, it felt fantastic. The increase of two more speeds made me cum right away.

Of course, I wasn't finished yet.

I had to try them out together.

This. Felt. Amazing!

This rabbit vibrator did not disappoint. The combination of ridges, rotations, and vibrations was definitely enough to throw me over the edge. A couple times.

This is called the cliterrific cup, though, so I wanted to figure out the benefit of the cup at the end of the shaft. It doesn't vibrate at all; it only rotates. Still, I wanted to see how it would feel to have it cup my clit while rotating. It felt good, of course, but not good enough to cum. I definitely prefer the shaft inserted into my pussy.

As I mentioned, I have used this while standing in the shower. I found the sensations to be even more instense in the hot, steamy shower. I think the standing position really does the trick for me.

Jasper and I have also used this toy as a couple. No promises, but that may be a post for another time. Let me just say that with the shaft in my ass and the bullet against his balls, we were definitely both loving this toy.

I haven't been around...

I've been a bad blogger, but this semester is really kicking my ass. I'm reaping the rewards of a summer of procrastination. All of my free time has been spent with my nose in a book reading this book or that on either Russian or Chinese modern history. While it has been fascinating, I'm in such a time crunch that I'm not really able to enjoy it as much as possible. I am pretty pleased with myself, though, at how productive and determined I've been the past several weeks, and I do think I'm on a fairly good track to finishing everything I need to do.

And then, I'll have January to recuperate before I begin student teaching, which I'm sure will come with its own set of challenges.

In the midst of all this stress, my sex drive has been completely rundown - much to the dismay of both me and Jasper.

Some random moments, though, I still feel the strong desire to have something fill me. To feel the intense pleasure of an orgasm.

Usually these moments come in the mornings while Jasper is still sleeping, and I don't have a lot of time. I don't want to wake him, so off to the shower I go. That way, it's a little more like multi-tasking. *wink*

White Heat Double Delights

I recently received a new vibrator from EdenFantasys. It is perfect in the shower! It's just a little white rabbit vibrator, and when I first opened the package, I thought, damn, that's much smaller than I expected.

However, when I first slipped into into my pussy, I thought I was in heaven. It may be small, but it's got these incredible ridges that just feel, well, incredible, while gliding inside. It also has two bullets - one in the shaft and one in the clitoral attachment. They may not be super powerful, but they were definitely just what I needed.

This is very quickly becoming my favorite toy!

I have used this several times in the past few weeks - mostly in the shower, but once in the bedroom. The bedroom was nice, too, but I do prefer it in the shower - it makes cleaning this toy a breeze. :) Now, I just keep it right in my shower caddy, for mornings when I need a little release.

Like now...




P.S. Check out EdenFantasys for all your sex toy needs.

JoyBear Pictures

A couple months ago, Jess from JoyBear Pictures contacted me. I was thrilled to be considered a confident and sexually sassy woman by this adult erotica company. :-)

She offered me enough credits to watch an erotic film on their site in exchange for a review. I was more than happy to agree. Unfortunately, life got in the way, and I got super busy. I meant to have this all written in time for my birthday celebration, but here is it nearly a month later, and I'm just getting to it.

JoyBear Pictures is a great company!

From their website: Stylish, sophisticated, adult erotic films for couples, women and men

Instead of choosing to view scenes from just one movie, I chose to view scenes from three different movies.

London Sex Project 2: Scene 1. Long-time couple take advantage of an unsuspecting reveler. (Click here for a free trailer.) It is shot more like a reality TV show with the photographer describing the LSP and then following around a couple while they pick up a third at a bar, bring her home to have some fun with them. In general, I dislike all reality TV, so this format was not for me. The overall flow of the movie was a little slow for me, but the sex scenes were still pretty hot.

Match Mates: Scene 2. Liselle finds her favourite couple a bubbly blonde. (Click here for a free trailer.) Liselle Bailey, who made her mark with the London Sex Project, comes back with Match Mates. The premise of this movie is Liselle setting up her pornstar friends. This was also shot in the same reality style as LSP2, so, again, it wasn't really my cup of tea. I did enjoy this one a bit more than LSP2 because Liselle was much hotter than the guy in LSP2. She was also a little more interactive with the pornstars. I enjoyed the sex scenes in this movie a lot - despite the overall style.

Five Hot Stories for Her: Scene 2. Fuck You Carlos. (Click here for a free trailer.) The storyline of this movie was great. A wife comes home from shopping to find her husband in bed with another woman. He tries to say that she was there as a gift of a threesome to her, so as revenge, she plans a party while Carlos is out and films a threesome of her with two guys. The two guys were pretty hot and so was the sex. It was a fun scene to watch.

JoyBear claims that their movies are stylish and sophisticated. I would agree. In general, their movies cater more to women and couples. The lighting and filming is great. I did enjoy watching these scenes and look forward to watching a few more (I still have a few credits to use). They are definitely hardcore porn, but they also seem a bit softer than a lot of the porn I usually watch with Jasper.

I did have some difficulty getting the movies to play. It didn't seem to work in Internet Explorer 9, but I was able to view it with Google Chrome with minimal problems. It does require Windows Media player on your computer. These technical issues were likely user error. :)

Do you like porn? Are you interested in viewing erotic movies that are more stylish and sophisticated? Would you enjoy watching a few JoyBear Pictures movies on your own? JoyBear is offering THREE of my readers an opportunity to view an entire movie of their choice.

Here's how to enter:

Mandatory Entry: Visit JoyBear Pictures and tell me which scene you'd like to watch! (This entry is required and must be done before obtaining any of the bonus entries below.)

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Contest ends 9/18/11 at 11:59pm CDT. Winners will be chosen using random.org and will be announced on 9/19/11! Be sure to leave your email address in your comment unless it's visible on your Blogger profile. (If I can't contact you, a new winner will be drawn.) Winners will have 48 hours to respond to my email. If winners do not claim their prizes in the 48 hour period, new winners will be chosen at random.

2011 "O" Award

Perhaps you've already heard the news, but EdenFantasys was awarded the Outstanding Online Retailer award from AVN recently.

I couldn't agree more!

You could easily get lost in all the fun articles and forums and reviews on their website...not to mention all the fabulous shopping!

They have a huge selection of all types of adult toys! Plus their website is super easy to navigate. They have lots of different categories to browse, or you can enter your own search criteria. In addition to toys, they have a great selection of lingerie as well as books/video/audio.

Seriously, they have something for everyone!

In addition to all of that, I think they're set apart from other online retailers with their sense of commuity. They have all kinds of clubs to join from cooking to porn to photography to reading. They have extensive reviews including some video reviews. There are also numerous forums you can join.

If you've ever shopped with EdenFantasys, what do you enjoy about their site?
If you haven't, what are you waiting for?



Oh and don't forget to enter my giveaway for your chance to win some fun Nipple Charms. They make great gifts, too.

Pixie Curve - Ooh la la

The other day I was reading this blog post about butt sex. Hubman posed the question to his readers about their preference on talking about anal sex.

I've dabbled a bit with anal sex, and I thought I'd answer his question here on Sex Babble. When talking about it, I prefer anal sex (obviously, since I've written it 3 times that way already). When in the throes of a sexual escapade; however, I prefer a shouted "fuck my ass!" or a whispered "Do you want to fuck my ass?"

I've been known to express an occasional, "Am I your anal slut?" or "Do you like fucking your anal whore?"

I guess I'm not very creative. Perhaps I should branch out. Any suggestions?

Speaking of anal sex, we recently tried out the Pixie Curve.

This toy was really fun! It's soft and squishy and PINK. I liked the unique shape and was excited to try it out.

It's circumference is 5 1/2" at the thickest part, so it's not exactly for the faint of heart. We had a little difficulty getting it into my ass because of its girth, but a little vigorous clit rubbing helped ease it right into place.

And I'll never complain about a little clit rubbing. lol.

Once firmly inside, this baby stayed put, which is awesome because it leaves our hands free for other kinds of exploring without having to worry about it unexpectedly popping out. This has often a problem for us with other anal toys that we've tried.

I really enjoyed having this inside my ass while Jasper fucked my pussy. He says it felt pretty great as well. This is a definite keeper in our ever-expanding collection of sex toys.

An Interview with Jasper (and a review)

I agreed to write a review of the Maximus lubricant. At first, I thought this would be a great opportunity to try out a new lube. Unfortunately, writing the review became a real struggle. We simply do not use lube very often. When we do, it's because it has become absolutely necessary. By that time, I am rarely able to focus on the lube itself, as I am too focused on the pleasure of the sex I am enjoying.

So, I kept putting off writing this review.

Meanwhile, the bottle kept getting emptier and emptier. ;) I asked Jasper to write a review on this water-based lube, but he didn't know what to write.

Then, I came up with a brilliant idea of doing a little Q&A with him. I figured it might be kind of fun for you all to get to know him a little better. Let's go ahead and jump right in.

Q: How often do you masturbate?
A: Every other day

Q: Besides lube, do you use any other kinds of aids to help you out? Toys? Pictures? Videos?
A: Videos

Q: What's your favorite kind of porn? Any favorite pornstars?
A: DPs and sometimes gang bangs. I have a huge list of favorite pornstars. Top among which would be Tiffany Rayne, Amber Rayne, Taylor Rain, Bobbi Starr, Rachel Starr, Belladonna, and Jane Darling.

Q: How would you describe your experience using Maximus?
A: Quite good.

Q: Does it stay nice and slippery or do you need to reapply frequently to keep it from getting tacky?
A: It starts very slippery, and it stays slippery longer than any other lube I've used, but if you masturbate for a long time, you do eventually have to reapply.

Q: About how much do you need for a session? In other words does a little go a long way?
A: Yes, a little goes a long way. One pump will usually do the job; two pumps maximum.

Q: Do you have any comments on the packaging?
A: I very much like the pump. The bottle is a clear cylindrical minimalist design, which I appreciate.

Q: Overall, would you recommend this lube?
A: Highly.

Thanks, Jasper!

I hope you've found this review to be helpful. Don't forget to visit Eden Fantasys for all your adult toy needs.

Ocean Breeze

We all know how much I love sex.
I love watching sex.
Reading about sex.
Having sex.

But sometimes, sex just plain hurts.
I blame it on my wackadoo womanly cycle (which has never been very cyclical).
On these rare occasions, every position ends in pain.

This doesn't necessarily stop me.
Well, it might if I knew ahead of time that it was going to be one of those sessions, but my body doesn't tend to give me those warnings. It's usually only when I'm in the throes that the prick of pain becomes intense, and I have to continually ask Jasper to "not go so deep."

Unfortunately, the first time we tried out my new Ocean Breeze dildo was one of those rare occasions.

It also happened to be a session when Jasper was feeling particularly greedy (not normally a bad thing). If my body had been a little more cooperative, it would've been a great night to have a few extra cocks around. :))

Jasper was intent on stuffing me that night, so play continued with his cock and two dildos in whatever combination of holes. Well, I never had all 3 in the same hole, but I think you get what I mean.

As Jasper was fucking me, I really had to concentrate on the pleasure (as I tried to will away the pain). I remember lying there while he used the Ocean Breeze on me thinking, "Damn! I can't wait to use this while masturbating." Y'know, I wouldn't go as deep. blah, blah, blah.

This glass dildo is a little heavier than our other ones. I think that may have contributed to how it felt inside, but what was incredible about this toy was the ridges along the outside. They may not look like much, but oh fuck, did they feel fantastic gliding in and out of my cunt.

Oh, yes, my pussy was definitely enjoying those ridges.

There are also fun little nubs at the base which felt glorious on my lips and clit.

Now, if only the pain would've subsided, so I could have truly enjoyed myself... ::sigh::

******

I have used this particular toy a few more times with much more pleasurable results. All-in-all, I'm definitely excited to add this to my collection of sex toys.

Here are a few specs about it, for those who might be interested:

Length: 7 1/2"
Insertable length: 6 1/2"
Circumference: 3 3/4"
Diameter: 1 1/4"
Weight: 13oz

Also, it comes in a fun red, crushed velvet pouch. Not only does this make it look fancy but it also helps prevent cracks or chips in the glass.

Weekend/Party Recap....and a Review

This past Friday, I received a fun little package in the mail. Who doesn't love getting sex toys in the mail? Actually, this is the first I've ever received. I was super excited to open it and find my new Fairy Baby Wand! My first thought was, "Wow! That is tiny!!" In fact, I was so surprised by it's size that I exclaimed this thought out loud to Jasper. :) It's advertised to be small enough to be able to bring with you anywhere, so I slipped it into my purse. You know, to have it with me....just in case....

******
Saturday night, Jasper and I headed to the St. Patrick's Day party. My new nipple charms looked great under my white tank top. Plus, I just felt super sexy. We got to the party nice and early; there were hardly any party-goers there yet. We got there so early, so we could have a couple drinks in my sister's room beforehand. Save a little $$ while at the party. :))

Since the party had already started, my brother-in-law let us into their room and went back down to resume his party duties (he works security). Jasper and I enjoyed a drink each. Just sitting around their room, chatting, enjoying each other's company. I'd pulled out my new little toy just to check it's power intensity. I touched it against my pussy through my thong. It definitely packs a good little punch - especially considering it's size.

We were about to snap a couple pictures of me from behind, looking out the window, when there was a knock on the door.

It was my sister - coming up to enjoy a drink with us.

We hung out with her for a bit until she had to get back down to the registration table.

Jasper was fucking horny! It wasn't but a few minutes after she left that my panties were on the floor, and I was riding his cock while he sat in the chair in their room. Actually, we started with me sucking his cock while kneeling on all fours on the ottoman. It was a slightly different position than we usually enjoy, so it was great. Unfortunately, I did have a sore throat, so I couldn't do much...and I certainly couldn't deepthroat.

So, I turned around and sat on his cock, gliding up and down. He felt incredibly good inside me. Hitting all the right spots. After a few minutes, we stood up. I leaned against the window while he fucked me from behind. Yum! Now that's the way to get the party started. Hehe. Pink was actually playing on iTunes on their computer while we fucked.

We cleaned-up, dressed, snapped a couple pics that were interrupted earlier, and headed down to the hotel restaurant for some dinner before heading to the party.

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The actual party was relatively uneventful. We danced a little. Not nearly as much as I'd have liked. We actually did spend quite a bit of time chatting with 3 other couples. One couple's child got sick, so they left pretty early. The other two couples were very fun to chat with. All 3 were, actually. It's just that our chatting with the first couple got cut short.

After the party, we did go up to the room of one of the couple's. They were fun to talk to, but frankly we weren't physically attracted to them, so a drink was as far as it was going to go.

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After our drink, we hailed a cab and headed home. Jasper took our dog out and told me, "Do not undress." "Why?" I asked. "Because I want to undress you."

So, I waited without so much as taking off my shoes. See, I can totally be a good girl. :)

He undressed me. We licked and sucked and fucked.  I don't think we tried anything new or crazy or particularly noteworthy, but it was great sex. As it generally is.

******

After he came, I wanted a little more. "Sweetie, will you grab me that tiny toy? It's in my purse." Like I mentioned earlier, this little baby definitely packs a good punch. He went to clean-up, as I continued to lie on my back. I'm actually pretty inexperienced with using wand massagers, as I generally prefer my hand. I had to be a little patient with this toy. Relaxing into it and letting the pleasure waft over me.

It was a fun experience to experiment with the powerful vibrations. How much pressure should I apply to my clit? How does it feel when I move down along my slit? What's it like when I use it to draw little circles?

Let me just say it definitely elicited some good, deep moaning out of me, and I was totally surprised with how hard I came after several minutes of playing around with it.

I would definitely recommend this little guy, if you want something small and pocket-sized. Plus, it's rechargeable via USB. Just be forewarned that it is a bit loud. I do intend to test the loudness sometime next week while my boss is traveling for work, so stay tuned for more adventures with my new Fairy Baby Wand.