How do you ask for it?

I came across an article the other day with 9 tips for women on how to ask for sex. Obviously, I don't really have a problem asking for sex. Well, maybe sometimes I still do...with those other than my husband. *wink*


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The tips are simple. Easy.

I think it's unfortunate that so many women out there are too shy or embarrassed to ask for sex. Still, I do not doubt that it's true, and even the easy, simple ideas are not always so obvious.

Essentially, here is the list

1. Send sexy texts/emails or slip him a love note
2. Create a secret code for sex. Something you'd feel comfortable saying in front on your kids or in-laws. How fun!
3. Do what you can to focus on sex throughout the day to help you be in the mood all. day. long (and into the night).
4. Send non-verbal cues. Little kisses on the neck, etc.
5. Try something new together. Something nonsexual. I'm not too sure about this one.
6. Tell him he's HOT! Oh, yeah!
7. Ask for it at unusual times - not just before jumping into bed for the night.
8. Saunter down memory lane.
9. Be straightforward. Love this one!

So, tell me...how do you ask for it? I know this article was definitely geared toward woman asking for sex from their man, but I'd be interested in hearing from all perspectives.